A year with my Old Lady

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I realised it's been over a year since I first got my Old Lady, then aged 25. Despite my initial fears with taking on such an old horse, she's still with us and looking good (I think!). I would welcome some thoughts on her condition from the photo. My non-horsy dad keeps commenting on her ribs but my neighbours that have ponies think she looks good (I keep having to tell them which one is the "old one"!) and I do worry sometimes that I don't see her objectively.

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Her ribs can show alarmingly depending on her position, then recede a bit when she moves. She has a little padding behind the shoulder and a tiny belly. I would like her a bit better covered, but I'm not sure it's realistically possible. She eats well, but not a lot, she tends to loose interest and stands there contemplating the meaning of life instead or goes for a march (and I do mean a proper ground eating march around the field). She has seen the dentist and has no issues to report and she will be having a cushings test in two weeks time at the same time as her vaccinations.

However her coat has taken on a bit of a shine, she has more hair on her face thanks to a change in fly mask and she no longer has goat feet (seedy toe on three out of four feet was not a great look). She is as subtle as a drunken bull in a china shop, brushing past me to stop with her rear in my face for a good scratch. She seems sometimes vaguely unaware of where her own feet are, leaving me hastily pulling my own out from under her hooves before they get crushed. Likewise ridden: she has "go", "go faster", "sort of stop but not for too long", "left" and "right". I have to remember that she doesn't know leg cues for turning or moving over, I have to use an open rein, which can lead to some comic over-steering. She more than makes up for all this by being kind, willing and friendly and putting up with her crazy owner. She comes when I call, stays alone while I ride Little Madam with minimal calling (the occasional hopeful call when she can hear my neighbours in their garden), enthusiastically carries me out hacking, ears forward and taking it all in her long stride, lets me lead Little Madam from her and lets me lead her from a bicycle (I did say I was crazy).

All in all, I am very lucky to have my Old Lady in my life.
 

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She sounds fun and looks amazing for her age. She also has a glint in her eye that may or may not put you through your paces if she so felt like it…. Wish you many more years of happiness ❤️
Thank you. I think she's too kind to put me through my paces, but she's certainly ready to give some of the youngsters a run (or a trot!) for their money. I luckily don't take her often to the riding school as I seem to have a bit of a love triangle developing. The Old Lady took a shine to my instructor's gelding, who in turn has a crush on Little Madam. Little Madam is not inclined to fancy anyone without a great deal of courting and groveling on their part.
 

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What a brilliant horse! I love the imperious bum-scratch commands and how you adapt to not using leg cues.
Yes, she knows what she wants in life! Luckily she's fairly easy to please. It's one of the joys of taking on a more mature horse, you take them as they are. It doesn't seem fair to try to change her at this stage in her life, we might as well just enjoy each other to our best ability.
 

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Yes, she knows what she wants in life! Luckily she's fairly easy to please. It's one of the joys of taking on a more mature horse, you take them as they are. It doesn't seem fair to try to change her at this stage in her life, we might as well just enjoy each other to our best ability.
I love what you have written here. I have a 25 year old too and have the same attitude. Every day with them is precious and to be enjoyed 💕
 

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I think for 25 her condition is fine - it's the muscle tone that's dropped off but that's to be expected.

She sounds like she's landed on her hooves with you and is training you well!! Lucky girl x
Thank you. Yes, definitely a lot less muscle than a younger horse. I'm trying to maintain what she's got but she'll never be a body builder at her age.
She has got me well trained but thinks I could spend a bit more time but scratching.
 

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How lucky was she to find a great home at an older age. So many horses can be ridden into older life these days and it’s great to see. Yes her ribs are showing but I think that’s because their muscle tone drops with age. If she’s eating well and interested in life around her I wouldn’t worry.
The dentist (vet) said that keeping her in light work would be good for her so that's what we're doing. I pester every professional that comes into contact with her for an opinion on her condition, so far they've all been happy. Dad, despite commenting on her ribs also mentioned he wished he could move like her, she keeps herself fit with her fiel explorations and the occasional race with Little Madam.
 

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The dentist (vet) said that keeping her in light work would be good for her so that's what we're doing. I pester every professional that comes into contact with her for an opinion on her condition, so far they've all been happy. Dad, despite commenting on her ribs also mentioned he wished he could move like her, she keeps herself fit with her fiel explorations and the occasional race with Little Madam.
She reminds me very much of my friend who adopted a hard used ex-polo mare when she was 20 and had a fabulous 10 years with her until she developed cancer. Her muscle tone dropped off with light hacking but she absolutely loved pottering out and about and then racing around the field like she was a decade younger. She was quite closed off when she came to my friend and once she realised she had her own human opened up and her lovely personality came out. Always makes me smile seeing golden oldies still enjoying their life and having fun.
 

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She reminds me very much of my friend who adopted a hard used ex-polo mare when she was 20 and had a fabulous 10 years with her until she developed cancer. Her muscle tone dropped off with light hacking but she absolutely loved pottering out and about and then racing around the field like she was a decade younger. She was quite closed off when she came to my friend and once she realised she had her own human opened up and her lovely personality came out. Always makes me smile seeing golden oldies still enjoying their life and having fun.
My Old Lady was lucky enough to have her own human for over a decade but unfortunately lost her too soon. That's why she came to me. Friends and yard of the old owner would have offered her a home for life, but nothing beyond the bare minimum so felt she would like a new human of her own who had some time for her.
 

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Your lovely old mare is also lucky to have a younger mare to keep her moving. My 26 yr old still has some muscle as she is regularly moved around the field by her younger friend.
 

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Your lovely old mare is also lucky to have a younger mare to keep her moving. My 26 yr old still has some muscle as she is regularly moved around the field by her younger friend.
To be honest the younger mare is more food focused and doesn't move as much as my Old Lady in general. The races only happen if they decide to do some hoolies. Old Lady is self motivated.
 
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