littlepiglet
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Was wondering if anyone has any advice for a first time owner.
I'm in my 40s, recently bought my first horse and have her at a DIY yard, we're on our own at mo whilst she is in quarantine which i am finding quite hard although I can ask for advice if needed but I don't physically see anyone much when I am there so feel quite alone.
She is turning out to be a bit of a handful (not as chilled as she was when I tried her). Is fine to ride, I have ridden her 8 times since I've had her which is just over three weeks. I have hacked her out alone and she was a little nervy and jumpy but quite good on the whole, been out with a friend on his horse and she was fine...again a little jumpy but OK on the whole. She has lost a bit of weight despite feed staying the same as with previous owner. She has been quite stressed in the stable (kicking and spinning round etc) all adding to my nerves so I've decided to leave her out now to help her settle - getting mixed views on this from people at the yard.
My worry is that I am suddenly seeming to lack confidence handling her (she keeps trying to bite me....but not in a nasty vicious way its more of a nervous thing I think) and i'm nervous about riding her for no real reason.
I 'm conscious I need to keep riding her but am just finding the whole situation very overwhelming and waking up each morning wondering whether I have done the right thing and if she is the right horse for me!
It's something I always wanted ever since I was a young child and have been riding regulalry with instructor for past 3 years, she helped me find my first horse. Its only recently that I've been in a position to be able to comfortably afford a horse so money fortunately isn't a issue for me but now I am here and have her I just worry so much about everything, overthinking what could go wrong and whether I am competent enough to do this!
Is this normal to feel like this? Originally I wanted to have her at a yard offering part livery just to provide some support really but ended up on DIY as felt it better to start off 'full time' so to speak to properly get to know my new ned and try to bond.
Any guidance appreciated - thanks in advance
I'm in my 40s, recently bought my first horse and have her at a DIY yard, we're on our own at mo whilst she is in quarantine which i am finding quite hard although I can ask for advice if needed but I don't physically see anyone much when I am there so feel quite alone.
She is turning out to be a bit of a handful (not as chilled as she was when I tried her). Is fine to ride, I have ridden her 8 times since I've had her which is just over three weeks. I have hacked her out alone and she was a little nervy and jumpy but quite good on the whole, been out with a friend on his horse and she was fine...again a little jumpy but OK on the whole. She has lost a bit of weight despite feed staying the same as with previous owner. She has been quite stressed in the stable (kicking and spinning round etc) all adding to my nerves so I've decided to leave her out now to help her settle - getting mixed views on this from people at the yard.
My worry is that I am suddenly seeming to lack confidence handling her (she keeps trying to bite me....but not in a nasty vicious way its more of a nervous thing I think) and i'm nervous about riding her for no real reason.
I 'm conscious I need to keep riding her but am just finding the whole situation very overwhelming and waking up each morning wondering whether I have done the right thing and if she is the right horse for me!
It's something I always wanted ever since I was a young child and have been riding regulalry with instructor for past 3 years, she helped me find my first horse. Its only recently that I've been in a position to be able to comfortably afford a horse so money fortunately isn't a issue for me but now I am here and have her I just worry so much about everything, overthinking what could go wrong and whether I am competent enough to do this!
Is this normal to feel like this? Originally I wanted to have her at a yard offering part livery just to provide some support really but ended up on DIY as felt it better to start off 'full time' so to speak to properly get to know my new ned and try to bond.
Any guidance appreciated - thanks in advance