Kallibear
Well-Known Member
I have a lovely horse on what-amounts-to a loan. Beautiful boy, eager to please and talented. But not easy. He's very quirky and could be (and has been) really difficult in the wrong hands. He has to be THE biggest drama queen I've ever come across!
He has a long list of silly quirks but one, which I'm not sure how to deal with, is his manner in taking treats.
He seems to have no idea how to take them with his lips, instead grabing at them with his teeth. If you're not careful he'll take a finger off too.
If he's calm and relaxed he'll approach your hand calmly and slowly, but then peel back him lips and grab at it with his teeth. If he doesn't get it straight away, or misses, he becomes more and more frantic and 'teethy'. He never does what other horses do, where they feel about with their lips - he starts to run his teeth over your hand and nip.
If he's then told off, or he's stressed for some other reason (he stresses a lot
), but offered again he lunges, trying to get in and out as quickly as possibly and he's accidently bitten me more than once that way.
There is no nastiness in it, only fear (which goes for all his handling problems - god knows why - he's been well loved all his life!). Telling him off only makes him worse. A 100 times worse.
I did a little clicker training with him but if anything it made it worse. It stopped the mugging, and he now looks away, but it made the 'lunge' at your hand much worse, once he's allowed it.
Not feeding treats didn't work either - he didn't get for months but was even worse when they started again. He's incredibly food motivated and a reward really speeds up his learning. And a treat helps take him off Planet Toby when he's gone into overdrive. Just 'never feeding by hand' doesn't solve the problem, just mask it, I want to teach him to take it gentley, but I have no idea how!
Any ideas? I'd quite like to keep all my fingers!
He has a long list of silly quirks but one, which I'm not sure how to deal with, is his manner in taking treats.
He seems to have no idea how to take them with his lips, instead grabing at them with his teeth. If you're not careful he'll take a finger off too.
If he's calm and relaxed he'll approach your hand calmly and slowly, but then peel back him lips and grab at it with his teeth. If he doesn't get it straight away, or misses, he becomes more and more frantic and 'teethy'. He never does what other horses do, where they feel about with their lips - he starts to run his teeth over your hand and nip.
If he's then told off, or he's stressed for some other reason (he stresses a lot
There is no nastiness in it, only fear (which goes for all his handling problems - god knows why - he's been well loved all his life!). Telling him off only makes him worse. A 100 times worse.
I did a little clicker training with him but if anything it made it worse. It stopped the mugging, and he now looks away, but it made the 'lunge' at your hand much worse, once he's allowed it.
Not feeding treats didn't work either - he didn't get for months but was even worse when they started again. He's incredibly food motivated and a reward really speeds up his learning. And a treat helps take him off Planet Toby when he's gone into overdrive. Just 'never feeding by hand' doesn't solve the problem, just mask it, I want to teach him to take it gentley, but I have no idea how!
Any ideas? I'd quite like to keep all my fingers!