texansunrise
Well-Known Member
If you were in the position of not having any willing volunteers to hack out with.. and needed to start introducing a unconfident spooky 5 year old to hacking out and meeting traffic, is it wise to start doing so by walking him out in hand first ?
I hacked out regularly with my 5 yr old every day last year and had a pretty confident boy - who would spook a little at cars - but would take pretty much every thing in his stride..
however after a road accident ( nobody hurt just bruised and confidence bit bashed ) last year and a break from hacking , i want to start getting my boy out and seeing the world again as he has become a bit to comfortable with his sheltered life style of field, school, stable .
I have him on livery but do not having many willing volunteers to ride with ( i think they are a little nervous to ride with me as they are mainly novice riders) i am thinking of walking him out in hand as i feel it might help his confidence having me there and also i am not risking my saftey as i feel just getting on his back and hacking out straight away is a bit suicidal !
I have been criticised by a few riders for not just getting on him and getting on with it but i have worked so hard to get my nerve back i want to do the sensible and safe thing for both of us with out making him worried or myself.
I would be grateful for any advice or experiences that could help me to get started. Knowing him as well as i do, he needs to go out consistantly to settle and relax with cars and the hedge monsters but i need to get started first!
As i have nobody to hack with , i just need a litle help/advice to get started to help improve his confidence !
Thankyou in advance x
I hacked out regularly with my 5 yr old every day last year and had a pretty confident boy - who would spook a little at cars - but would take pretty much every thing in his stride..
however after a road accident ( nobody hurt just bruised and confidence bit bashed ) last year and a break from hacking , i want to start getting my boy out and seeing the world again as he has become a bit to comfortable with his sheltered life style of field, school, stable .
I have him on livery but do not having many willing volunteers to ride with ( i think they are a little nervous to ride with me as they are mainly novice riders) i am thinking of walking him out in hand as i feel it might help his confidence having me there and also i am not risking my saftey as i feel just getting on his back and hacking out straight away is a bit suicidal !
I have been criticised by a few riders for not just getting on him and getting on with it but i have worked so hard to get my nerve back i want to do the sensible and safe thing for both of us with out making him worried or myself.
I would be grateful for any advice or experiences that could help me to get started. Knowing him as well as i do, he needs to go out consistantly to settle and relax with cars and the hedge monsters but i need to get started first!
As i have nobody to hack with , i just need a litle help/advice to get started to help improve his confidence !
Thankyou in advance x