WelshTilly
Well-Known Member
As the title suggests if you could give one piece of advice, hint or tip as a first owner of a horse as an adult what would it be....
Don't take every piece of advice given. Those that spout info with ultimate confidence aren't always that well informed!
Get a good vet, farrier, EDT and saddle fitter.
The two main problems that I have witnessed with new horse owners could be solved with
1. Don't worry, just sit up and kick on.
2. As long as you and the horse get home safely, don't worry about X, Y or Z as there is always tomorrow to work on that.
I've found myself saying those two things countless times when escorting new owners out on hacks.
Learn to listen to your horse - he'll soon tell you if something is wrong. You just need to learn his language.
- "No foot no 'oss, so get a good farrier and look after them
- don't be pressured into competing if you don't want to - be a happy hacker if that's what you want to do
- don't put up with a lousy livery yard
- "the best whip is in the corn bin"
- make sure saddle fits and get it checked regulalry by different person if possible
- get a good vet and stick with them, and listen to their advice
- get a good horsey friend who'll stick with you and listen to all your raves and rantings about your horse!! and offer constructive and helpful advice when needed without interfering
- get a good trainer for when (not if) things go wrong; who'll give you confidence and not knock you down
- buy the best feed and hay you can afford: not to do so is false economy
- treasure your horse and treat him/her like your best friend; one day all you'll have is the memories and a few photos
- if things don't work out, you are responsible for passing on your horse to the best possible home you can find for him/her
- if your horse gets old, or sick, or in pain, and you have to make a tough decision, then don't pass this responsility on to someone else or sell on; grit your teeth, say your goodbyes, and do the decent and humane thing