Am I a bad friend..?

For those asking about the marriage course when we got married in 1989 we had to have three meetings with the minister where he gave us 'instruction ' about marriage and life in general. I think he thought I was very demure as I kept my eyes fixed firmly down for all three hour long sessions the truth is if I had caught my OH eye my sense of the ridiculous would have got the better of me. The minister was a lovely well meaning man but it was excruciatingly funny and embrassing in equal measures.
OP the risk of tring to both is that you enjoy neither .
 
Goldenstar said:
For those asking about the marriage course when we got married in 1989 we had to have three meetings with the minister where he gave us 'instruction ' about marriage and life in general. I think he thought I was very demure as I kept my eyes fixed firmly down for all three hour long sessions the truth is if I had caught my OH eye my sense of the ridiculous would have got the better of me. The minister was a lovely well meaning man but it was excruciatingly funny and embrassing in equal measures.
OP the risk of tring to both is that you enjoy neither .
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Oh dear! I worry about my OH because I wouldn't put it passed him to say something outrageous just to provike a reaction and brighten up his day! Its a group thing with other couples which could be really bad especially considering I've heard stories of the vicar being quite blunt about rather private matters! Nightmare!!
 
squiz22 said:
Oh dear! I worry about my OH because I wouldn't put it passed him to say something outrageous just to provike a reaction and brighten up his day! Its a group thing with other couples which could be really bad especially considering I've heard stories of the vicar being quite blunt about rather private matters! Nightmare!!
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A group thing OMG that's terrible perhaps give the OH some ACP tablets in his tea before you go, and the minister was not at all shy about what he discussed !
The worse moment was when he asked my other half if it would help him to have some literature to read before the wedding night . I always wondered what it would have been !
 
Definitely do both. Life is far too short: squeeze as much as you can into one day. Just dont fall asleep in the soup !!
"Nothing is worth more than this day" (John Wolfgang von Goethe).
 
Goldenstar said:
A group thing OMG that's terrible perhaps give the OH some ACP tablets in his tea before you go, and the minister was not at all shy about what he discussed !
The worse moment was when he asked my other half if it would help him to have some literature to read before the wedding night . I always wondered what it would have been !
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Hilarious! OH will either die of embarrassment or play up to it..! I'm really bad at getting the giggles! I can see us disgracing ourselves in front of a group fo serious church goers!
 
horses1 said:
Definitely do both. Life is far too short: squeeze as much as you can into one day. Just dont fall asleep in the soup !!
"Nothing is worth more than this day" (John Wolfgang von Goethe).
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You are very right although I think it would be wise to sit tight and do Somerley on this occassion giving winnie all the time in the world.
 
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