Am I a bad mummy? ......... quite long sorry

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Have just decided that it is no longer fair to keep my horse as I really don't have enough time to spend with him. I work full time in a very busy law firm, my daughter rides and competes regularly and i haven't ridden properly for nearly 3 years. I had an injury two years ago and have been told not to get pulled about anymore as I have serious tendon problems in my right arm. I really don't think it is fair to keep him as a pet as he is only 15. I called up a local riding school this morning which is owned by one of my close friend's mum and asked if she would be interested - she is and can take him in about a week.

I have also called up another local person asking if they would like to take my fab 13.1 jumping pony on loan as he too is sat at home not doing a lot as my daughter has outgrown him. Their daughter is coming off 12.2 at the end of this season and she would be perfect for him. The mother is going to think about it.

Am I a bad mummy?
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No dont be daft, wouldnt you feel better if they were out there getting some enjoyment, and giving some child or adult some enjoyment too,
I know its a hard decision but most probably the best all round,
and if they not going too far away you can still see them, and maybe have a ride too
 
No, not bad at all...your horses will be happy for some stimulation and it will help manage their weight if they are doing some work. Your horses will not mind so long as they are well cared for and fed in their new homes!
 
<font color="pink"> </font> Of course your not!!
Just think..Your horses are going to bring someone else as much happiness as they bought you!! You obviously want the best for them..So your a great mummy!! Don't worry..I'm sure you'll still be aloud to see them regulary!!

Jennie x x x
 
I think you need a pat on the back for making a good decision. If your friend at the riding school takes the bigger horse, you can still see him, if you get better, ride him.

As for childrens ponies that are outgrown, it is the right thing to re-home them. After all the pony has been used to being out and about and enjoying life, its too early to retire and would be much kinder for a new fresh life.
 
We loaned out my daughters 13hh when she outgrew her. She is such an active pony and hated doing nothing. We have her back now as she unfortunately was kicked and suffered a star fracture of her hind leg. However we have been lucky and found a young girl just up the road who rides her regularly so we have the best of both worlds. You are definitely doing the right thing, and will still be able to keep in touch with them which is ideal.
 
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