Cheshire Chestnut
Well-Known Member
Do you ever get over losing your horse?
I had my mare for 8 years, since she was a youngster and then it broke my heart to have to sell her while I was at uni. I still had her for my first year but then when I went into my second year, I just didn't have enough time for her and it was unfair. It took me 5 months to sell her because I had to find her the 'perfect' home. I was very lucky to find the most amazing new owners for her, they had a lovely cottage with their own land, stables and school. She was a very pampered girl and looked after better than I could ever have wished for. The new owners kept in contact via annual Christmas cards with photos and updates and then when I felt I was ready, I went to visit her 4 years later and she looked AMAZING. I had the best day and left feeling on top of the world
8 months later I got a letter, thinking it was my annual Christmas card - I opened it. Inside was a letter explaining my gorgeous girl had to be put to sleep due to cushings. They had done everything they could for her and she had just not responded to treatment and therefore went down hill very quickly. She was put to rest and she was peaceful again. I was heartbroken and in tears for weeks - I couldn't believe she was gone and I felt so much pain for her new owners, they were robbed of so many lovely years together.
I still think about her all the time and I dream about her 3/4 times a month. I made the decision in the summer to get a new horse. I got him on loan first and now I've bought him. He's a Welsh D pony, the complete opposite of her and I did that so I couldn't compare them - it wouldn't be fair. She was my one in a million horse and I knew I'd never replace her so I didn't want to get anything like her for that reason. I love my new boy to bits but recently I've been thinking about her a lot and I feel sad I don't have her with me. I keep going on rides with my boy and outings to the beach and can't help thinking she'd have loved it Although she had a great home I regret selling her and I just wished things were different.
I know it all sounds strange and sorry for the long story but what I'm trying to ask is, do you ever get over a loss like that? Does anyone feel the same?
I had my mare for 8 years, since she was a youngster and then it broke my heart to have to sell her while I was at uni. I still had her for my first year but then when I went into my second year, I just didn't have enough time for her and it was unfair. It took me 5 months to sell her because I had to find her the 'perfect' home. I was very lucky to find the most amazing new owners for her, they had a lovely cottage with their own land, stables and school. She was a very pampered girl and looked after better than I could ever have wished for. The new owners kept in contact via annual Christmas cards with photos and updates and then when I felt I was ready, I went to visit her 4 years later and she looked AMAZING. I had the best day and left feeling on top of the world
8 months later I got a letter, thinking it was my annual Christmas card - I opened it. Inside was a letter explaining my gorgeous girl had to be put to sleep due to cushings. They had done everything they could for her and she had just not responded to treatment and therefore went down hill very quickly. She was put to rest and she was peaceful again. I was heartbroken and in tears for weeks - I couldn't believe she was gone and I felt so much pain for her new owners, they were robbed of so many lovely years together.
I still think about her all the time and I dream about her 3/4 times a month. I made the decision in the summer to get a new horse. I got him on loan first and now I've bought him. He's a Welsh D pony, the complete opposite of her and I did that so I couldn't compare them - it wouldn't be fair. She was my one in a million horse and I knew I'd never replace her so I didn't want to get anything like her for that reason. I love my new boy to bits but recently I've been thinking about her a lot and I feel sad I don't have her with me. I keep going on rides with my boy and outings to the beach and can't help thinking she'd have loved it Although she had a great home I regret selling her and I just wished things were different.
I know it all sounds strange and sorry for the long story but what I'm trying to ask is, do you ever get over a loss like that? Does anyone feel the same?