Guinness
Well-Known Member
just a bit of a vent really-i have just moved my horse to a friends yard (just a few stables at her house with me and her there) its GREAT i love it there BUT i feel a bit like im taking responsability for her horse too! im sure she doesnt mean it, shes just a bit dizzy but i dont know how to say anything to her without upsetting her?
her horse is on box rest at the mo, recovering from laminitis amongst other things but she keeps forgetting to call the vet to make arrangements to come and check her etc and i feel like if i dont do it then it will just get left (the vet has even taken to calling me instead of her as im the one who is always around!) i offer to muck out etc when at shes working which i dont mind doing at all, but her bed is a mess and she just keeps "forgetting" to buy new shavings for her, im tempted to buy some myself, but think she might take offence. it seems to me like her horse isnt her priority at the moment, but maybe im just being over-sensitive?
her horse is on box rest at the mo, recovering from laminitis amongst other things but she keeps forgetting to call the vet to make arrangements to come and check her etc and i feel like if i dont do it then it will just get left (the vet has even taken to calling me instead of her as im the one who is always around!) i offer to muck out etc when at shes working which i dont mind doing at all, but her bed is a mess and she just keeps "forgetting" to buy new shavings for her, im tempted to buy some myself, but think she might take offence. it seems to me like her horse isnt her priority at the moment, but maybe im just being over-sensitive?