It sounds a bit odd to me. I wonder whether things have been exaggerated! When does he actually work? He clearly earns money as he can buy and keep the pony and two families. So if he isnt working nights...when does he work? He would be at home in the day. Have you seen both the GF and the wife? I know some men lead double lives but honestly, how many would go and buy a works van just to have an affair. There are much easier ways to go about having an affair after all. Similarly men who lead two lives like this tend to keep the women well apart. They happen to work away from home a lot. So to bring both to the same pony doesnt add up at all. Unless he wants to be found out.
Just sounds like gossip to me Im afraid.
I have a friend who was conned for 15 years so know it happens but the two women were kept well apart.
Lol there is always one, i got told this by the lady who works on the yard as she was really shocked that the man had asked her to ask her mate whether she would go out with him. I really only added it on here out of the shock of what i had heard and the digust of what he was doing. I really dont think i could exaggerate on this at all...it is bad enough all ready!
The lady who told me is a really nice trueful lady and i dont think she was at all lying to me. She told me he lived on insurance cliams whether this is true or not i dont know.
I posted this more out of the shock of what he is doing to the kids as like you have said it does not make sense buying a pony for both when he could have kept it just with his girlfriend.
Will keep my big mouth shut from now on
, i know men who have done this kind of thing. I have even had a boss try to come onto me at work before whilst his son was in the same building and his wife was next door. I really dont like it and it really frustates me knowing he can so easily do it. I really hope he does get caught out because its not fair on the kids never mind the wife and girlfriend.