an appoligy and an explanation (not an excuse)

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im sorry for my behaviour. i do have an explanation for it but i dont want to seem emotional or wierd.

i do have mental issues (finally diagnosed on wednesday) that lead me to think differently about things and i have manic episodes of great highs (like earlier) and bad lows (like now)

im sorry

i have a lot on my plate.

im sorry
 
Sorry to hear about your diagnosis Black Horse, im sure all can forgive
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Hope your ok x
 
Dont worry about it. You were having a laugh and didnt think you were upsetting people.

It has happened before with other people and will happen again.

You didnt upset me. But I would have laughed about being told off!
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not being one to bear a grudge i would like to volunteer myself as the first to accept ur apology. not that you really upset to begin with tbh.
 
oh and may i suggest getting off the forum and going to give ur gorgeous horsey a cuddle if ur feeling a bit low now. x
 
I thought you were funny you just got a tiny bit carried away. Some people just like to have a little whinge. Don't take it to heart!
 
i cant i have too much to do
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i have just been dumped as well on top of all this...hence the manic low that is occuring now...by text none the less...:(

he just couldnt cope with me....:'(

im sorry but i have been having a really bad week and the only way i can cope with it is to become stupid, hyper and, well, manic lol (im not really laughing btw)

im sorry somepeople found the need to tell me to 'get a grip'. tell you what, have my head, my brain, my reality for a while (well, 8 years) and you get a grip!
 
Hi BH
Don't worry, it was generally quite entertaining! Don't let admin or anyone else get you down, you have enough on your plate without worrying about them too. As another poster said, give your horsie a big hug, go for a nice ride tomorrow and relax a bit
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I'm sure there wouldnt have been an issue if you posted on Soapbox or the Common Room. I guess people would rather use NL for advice rather than being a bit silly I guess. No harm done in the end though.
 
Not sure if my pm went but don't fuss about it B_H. You would be surprised how many of us have been there and are now on something for it!! Up days will come as will down days but you will always be you.
You cheered my day up and I really enjoyed the what to feed post. Give horsey a hug and then give yourself one from all of us
 
it was I who told you to 'get a grip'. To 'get a grip' on the fact it was a troll on a forum.

I didnt see the need to post a 'help' post in the SB stating that you were having so much fun in the NL.

You were going OTT and needed it pointing out to you.

Next time we shall all sit on our hands and watch you make an utter fool of yourself shall we??


I am sure your mental health issues are very real, but there are plenty on here who have similar problems, or worse, and still manage to retain a certain amount of dignity.
 
Hi hon, hope you feel better really quick, I went through the same thing a few years ago and it seemed such a big deal at the time, don't even think about it much now. Keep your chin up
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I am sure your mental health issues are very real, but there are plenty on here who have similar problems, or worse, and still manage to retain a certain amount of dignity.

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Ouch!

That was a little harsh. I haven't read the post in question, but surely it was no worse than some of the cr@p that is posted on here late on saturday nights.

God forbid if anyone should post anything 'undignified' but IMO most of the SB posts are far from thus.
 
I'm so sorry you're having such a tough time at the mo
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I have major ups and downs too and I really sympathise with you. I have spoken to someone about it, which did help me a lot, but there are times when I have to go in my room and have a mad five minutes, otherwise I know I'd say something I didn't mean. Luckily most of my friends are brilliant, but I know exactly what you mean about people telling you to 'get a grip'.

I hope you have a good weekend, and I'm here if you need a rant or anything
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it was I who told you to 'get a grip'. To 'get a grip' on the fact it was a troll on a forum.

I didnt see the need to post a 'help' post in the SB stating that you were having so much fun in the NL.

You were going OTT and needed it pointing out to you.

Next time we shall all sit on our hands and watch you make an utter fool of yourself shall we??


I am sure your mental health issues are very real, but there are plenty on here who have similar problems, or worse, and still manage to retain a certain amount of dignity.

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I have seen some people being kicked when they are down on this forum, but this post pretty well gets the biscuit.

Sickening...
 
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You know what BH, I think you should have stopped posting tonight a bit earlier, but never mind.
Just wanted to clarify something:
didn't you post a while back in SB about your mental problems, diagnosed a fair while back now and that you are getting help?
And that you split with said BF at about the same time?

It just seems to me that every time you get carried away on HHO, you bring the same record in your apology/justification...
 
im sorry but ive tried to read the post you are apologising for and i cannot see why you have to say sorry for ANYTHING!!!!! there is nothing ive read from you, that is remotely(SP) offensive!! FFS live and let live this was totally harmless and ive seen far far worse on this forum!! Your posts were harmless and i dont think its you that needs to get a grip!! Its 'some' that need to get a sense of humour!! Dont let any of this get you down!! Chin up, kick on!! X
 
oh, so you can post what YOU like? but others can't??

seriously, don't attack other members then do the 'my issues are worse than others' line.

Maybe my posts come across as harsh, but I was just being honest, and if you don't like that then that's up to you, you can always stick me on UI. I DO feel for you (trust me, I do), but you felt the need to attack someone for telling you to get a grip on the fact that the whole thing was over a troll, and then expect people to give you fluffiness...

you can't go round reacting to people how you like (health issues or no health issues, personal probs or no personal probs) and then shouting them down for replying...

had I known about your issues I may have chosen my words more carefully.... as it was I didnt and just reacted to what I saw as someone totally making a fool of themselves.
 
martlin, i have been diagnosed a while, by differing doctors. but each as incompetant as the next and i never went through with the help, or i did and i would not go to meetings etc.

its not an excuse.
 
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it was I who told you to 'get a grip'. To 'get a grip' on the fact it was a troll on a forum.

I didnt see the need to post a 'help' post in the SB stating that you were having so much fun in the NL.

You were going OTT and needed it pointing out to you.

Next time we shall all sit on our hands and watch you make an utter fool of yourself shall we??


I am sure your mental health issues are very real, but there are plenty on here who have similar problems, or worse, and still manage to retain a certain amount of dignity.

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I have seen some people being kicked when they are down on this forum, but this post pretty well gets the biscuit.

Sickening...

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My original reply (which OP decided to kick off about.... in THIS post) was before OP decided to bring the mental health issues into it.

Please do not judge me on my reply to an earlier post, a post where most people said things along the same line.
 
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carlie - i may have been, but i didnt undestand at the time. but at least i have laid myself in the firing line and appoligised! that takes guts!

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and i admire you for that, I just did not see your need to attack ME for my reply to an earlier post, when no-one had any idea of your problems. It was 'just' a comment of 'get a grip' which was taken totally over the top.

I apologise if THAT comment offended you, but you cannot expect the x amount of thousand members here to be mind readers and know you have problems... and to attack because of that.
 
i'm sorry i don't understand what you whish to gain by following this feed. This is a pointless argument... take time to think about what you are writing. With an illness that you say you have it is absorbing, what is in your head feels explosive with no rashonal... i would suggest you take time and let it unravel in private. this is realy not a suitable topic for a public forum.
 
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