Tempi
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Last night i was quite happily riding Archie on the school and he was going really nicely when YO came on on her youngster (she keeps telling me hes 4, but the girl she brought him off told me hes 6). Archie tensed a little as hes a little wary of other horses in the arena with him. But he listened to me and we carried on working well in trot and canter and even passing left to left he didnt freak out which is a HUGE improvement on even a couple of days ago, so i was really pleased with that
YO then shouted to me to see if i wanted to go for a hack up the lane with her (we've got a long track that leads off our yard onto the fields) i said yes (as i didnt want to seem like a whimp to her and not want to take him out).
We rodeup the track and he started having a total paddy at the puddles, he refused to go anywhere near them and started napping and doing mini rears, now hes 17'2 and i can cope with Bloss doing this but he is a bit big!! I however managed to persuade him to go round the edge and that was fine. However next puddle he totally threw his toys out of the pram so i got off and led him through it, all was fine and he walked through nicely, then he stood still whilst i got back on. We then turned round and came back after walking a bit further and again same problem, i did however get him to go round it this time.
he then started napping by his field and doind bigger rears, i didnt let him spin round and kept a good contact on him as i know how to deal with this sort of thing as bloss does it all the time, however he wasnt going to budge and i didnt have a stick as i dont school him with one and wasnt planning on hacking out. So i got him to turn round and face the way we were going and then i dismounted and led him the rest of the way home. I know a lot of you will say this is wrong, but i didnt truley let him get away with anything as i didnt let him spin round etc
So, (i told you it was long
) been talking to mum this morning who has in turn been talking to her friend at work (whos horse i had at my yard and broke for her last summer) and her friend thinks that my YO is trying to make me scared of Archie so her son can have him. They have already made me an offer on him after the first incident. YO new it was too soon for my to take him out, but she also knew i wouldnt say no to her if she offered. She also NEVER rides on the school but since ive had Archie shes been in their 4 times when ive been on him, she dosent ever come in there when im on Bloss. I am now totally convinced shes doing all this on purpose as they're jealous of Archie and i know her son wants him.
I dont know what to do as i cant leave because theres nowhere else near me (went down this route a while ago) and i am totally convinced shes doing all ths on purpose......its not going my confidence any good and she knows it too...........
sorry its so long guys but i had to let it all out!!!!
YO then shouted to me to see if i wanted to go for a hack up the lane with her (we've got a long track that leads off our yard onto the fields) i said yes (as i didnt want to seem like a whimp to her and not want to take him out).
We rodeup the track and he started having a total paddy at the puddles, he refused to go anywhere near them and started napping and doing mini rears, now hes 17'2 and i can cope with Bloss doing this but he is a bit big!! I however managed to persuade him to go round the edge and that was fine. However next puddle he totally threw his toys out of the pram so i got off and led him through it, all was fine and he walked through nicely, then he stood still whilst i got back on. We then turned round and came back after walking a bit further and again same problem, i did however get him to go round it this time.
he then started napping by his field and doind bigger rears, i didnt let him spin round and kept a good contact on him as i know how to deal with this sort of thing as bloss does it all the time, however he wasnt going to budge and i didnt have a stick as i dont school him with one and wasnt planning on hacking out. So i got him to turn round and face the way we were going and then i dismounted and led him the rest of the way home. I know a lot of you will say this is wrong, but i didnt truley let him get away with anything as i didnt let him spin round etc
So, (i told you it was long
I dont know what to do as i cant leave because theres nowhere else near me (went down this route a while ago) and i am totally convinced shes doing all ths on purpose......its not going my confidence any good and she knows it too...........
sorry its so long guys but i had to let it all out!!!!