KikiDee
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Has anyone ever overcome this? I'm not sure what I am looking for really - tips, positive thoughts, success stories?
I have a horse who is quite an anxious little chap by nature, though he has improved massively over the 2 years I have had him and is generally quite relaxed and happy now, he's learned to accept the leg, hacks out happily on his own without spinning and tanking off at the first leaf that moves etc. he just has a busy brain and 'big feelings' about things. I actually tracked down and spoke to his breeder who told me he has literally been that way since the day he was born, and once he was backed she sold him as he was always going to be too sharp and unpredictable for her. So I'm fairly confident there is an element of it just being the way he is rather than some deeply traumatic issue.
However when something freaks him out, his go-to is to run. I use 'bolt' in inverted commas because it's not a true bolt in the sense he's running blind with zero self preservation. But he will take off flat out in panic for about a minute until his adrenaline levels drop enough for him to start thinking straight again. The only way I've found to deal with it is just to circle him on a large circle and stay very calm and talk to him and gradually bring the circle smaller until the initial panic is over and he takes a breath and then he will come back to me. Trying to cling on, stop him or fight him just panics him more.
He will always do this through stress/anxiety/fear - he's had full vet checks and I'm pretty confident it's not a pain response as there is always a trigger. Either something pretty black & white like a bird flying out at him or he refuses a spooky filler and scares himself. Or it can sometimes be caused by trigger-stacking e.g. in a pole clinic he was already worked up as he found the work we were doing hard, then he got in a bit of a tizz over canter poles, so tanked off a bit, he then had to squeeze himself through a tight gap between a jump wing and the arena fence because he'd bombed off in the wrong direction which tipped him over into a full "leg it" mode for a few laps of the arena.
This isn't an 'every ride' thing, he can go months without doing it and 99% of the time is a lovely well-rounded horse - he hacks, jumps, goes round hunt rides, but I want to event him and with this behaviour I just don't see how he will ever be safe to do so, either for him, myself or other competitors.
Is there something I am missing or is it just 'who he is' and a case of dealing with it in the moment? I would move mountains for this horse and he is unbelievable talented and utterly wasted at the moment, so if I can do anything to help him learn to manage his emotions better and handle these situations I will do whatever it takes if that means groundwork, adopting a new system etc.
I have a horse who is quite an anxious little chap by nature, though he has improved massively over the 2 years I have had him and is generally quite relaxed and happy now, he's learned to accept the leg, hacks out happily on his own without spinning and tanking off at the first leaf that moves etc. he just has a busy brain and 'big feelings' about things. I actually tracked down and spoke to his breeder who told me he has literally been that way since the day he was born, and once he was backed she sold him as he was always going to be too sharp and unpredictable for her. So I'm fairly confident there is an element of it just being the way he is rather than some deeply traumatic issue.
However when something freaks him out, his go-to is to run. I use 'bolt' in inverted commas because it's not a true bolt in the sense he's running blind with zero self preservation. But he will take off flat out in panic for about a minute until his adrenaline levels drop enough for him to start thinking straight again. The only way I've found to deal with it is just to circle him on a large circle and stay very calm and talk to him and gradually bring the circle smaller until the initial panic is over and he takes a breath and then he will come back to me. Trying to cling on, stop him or fight him just panics him more.
He will always do this through stress/anxiety/fear - he's had full vet checks and I'm pretty confident it's not a pain response as there is always a trigger. Either something pretty black & white like a bird flying out at him or he refuses a spooky filler and scares himself. Or it can sometimes be caused by trigger-stacking e.g. in a pole clinic he was already worked up as he found the work we were doing hard, then he got in a bit of a tizz over canter poles, so tanked off a bit, he then had to squeeze himself through a tight gap between a jump wing and the arena fence because he'd bombed off in the wrong direction which tipped him over into a full "leg it" mode for a few laps of the arena.
This isn't an 'every ride' thing, he can go months without doing it and 99% of the time is a lovely well-rounded horse - he hacks, jumps, goes round hunt rides, but I want to event him and with this behaviour I just don't see how he will ever be safe to do so, either for him, myself or other competitors.
Is there something I am missing or is it just 'who he is' and a case of dealing with it in the moment? I would move mountains for this horse and he is unbelievable talented and utterly wasted at the moment, so if I can do anything to help him learn to manage his emotions better and handle these situations I will do whatever it takes if that means groundwork, adopting a new system etc.