anybody going to join me????

L

lease2412

Well-Known Member
Joined
19 July 2008
Messages
62
Visit site
for a bottle or two of wine after the s**t night ive just had??
got a phone call from O/H asking me to be ready to go out for 10.30pm (we dont live together) so got ready and waited and waited and waited kept trying to ring him but no answer, only to get a text at 11.30 to say back home now gnite x, no phone call to explain himself just a bleeding text!!! he is so guna get a poke in the eye tomorrow nite!! i mean come on a text
shocked.gif
 
hes been out cutting grass till late, still cant believe he had the cheek and the text was the final straw!!
confused.gif
never mind men will be men cant live with them cant live without them!! a big glass on its way to you
grin.gif
 
[ QUOTE ]
for a bottle or two of wine after the s**t night ive just had??
got a phone call from O/H asking me to be ready to go out for 10.30pm (we dont live together) so got ready and waited and waited and waited kept trying to ring him but no answer, only to get a text at 11.30 to say back home now gnite x, no phone call to explain himself just a bleeding text!!! he is so guna get a poke in the eye tomorrow nite!! i mean come on a text
shocked.gif


[/ QUOTE ]
shocked.gif
oh my...that is shocking,and bloody selfish
mad.gif
,you dont cancel by text,specially when he has asked you to be ready by a certain time...pig
mad.gif
,hope you poke more than his bleeding eye out
wink.gif

however can have a drink with you,holds glass up and says"sort him"
grin.gif

seriously hope you are ok,so upsetting when they do that
frown.gif
 
we've been together 12yrs but dont live together (i seem to remember why now
grin.gif
) threw circumstances. i dont go out very often and i hadnt planned to go out which makes it even worse because i got ready for nothing!! (even turned my computer off
shocked.gif
lol) i know hes been tired lately but why ask me to be ready then not turn up and then text not phone me to explain could of understood if he'd have fallen asleep but he rang from the pub
confused.gif
got a funny feeling theres more to it than just not turning up
confused.gif

i'll go get some more wine bottles and glasses
grin.gif
 
[ QUOTE ]
i know hes been tired lately but why ask me to be ready then not turn up and then text not phone me to explain could of understood if he'd have fallen asleep but he rang from the pub
confused.gif
got a funny feeling theres more to it than just not turning up
confused.gif

i'll go get some more wine bottles and glasses
grin.gif


[/ QUOTE ]

Yes I think he's met his mates and decided not to bother. I think your being taken for granted?
mad.gif
12 Years !!! Bl**dy hell.
shocked.gif
confused.gif
I think it's time you started going out with some friends. The word doormat springs to mind.
mad.gif
 
[ QUOTE ]

Why? How long have you lived together?

Lease 2412 pass WHW a glass of ?

[/ QUOTE ]

Lived together for two years or so, he's an ignorant pig too but pays rent AND livery, oh, and he drives the horsebox :0(

I'll have a large glass of red plz
 
[ QUOTE ]
Lived together for two years or so, he's an ignorant pig too but pays rent AND livery, oh, and he drives the horsebox :0(

I'll have a large glass of red plz

[/ QUOTE ] I think you should have 2 large reds.

I hope your sceaming to learn to drive the horsebox and get a better paid job lol.
grin.gif
Then kick his butt out of your life if he's that bad.
mad.gif
grin.gif
tongue.gif
 
[ QUOTE ]
we've been together 12yrs but dont live together (i seem to remember why now
grin.gif
) threw circumstances. i dont go out very often and i hadnt planned to go out which makes it even worse because i got ready for nothing!! (even turned my computer off
shocked.gif
lol) i know hes been tired lately but why ask me to be ready then not turn up and then text not phone me to explain could of understood if he'd have fallen asleep but he rang from the pub
confused.gif
got a funny feeling theres more to it than just not turning up
confused.gif

i'll go get some more wine bottles and glasses
grin.gif


[/ QUOTE ]
i think this guy is taking you for a mug.....12yrs circumstances or not you deserve a little more respect than that
mad.gif
TOSSER....sorry that was tame and not banned,lol,why ar you doing it to yourself sweet?
confused.gif
 
[ QUOTE ]
I think you should have 2 large reds.

I hope your sceaming to learn to drive the horsebox and get a better paid job lol.
grin.gif
Then kick his butt out of your life if he's that bad.
mad.gif
grin.gif
tongue.gif


[/ QUOTE ]

Too right, i'm looking for that dream live-in job working for a NICE employer who'll let me bring my two horses and my dog lol. Then I can break free
grin.gif
 
i think i put up with it because i met him when i was 17 he was/is my true 1st love, im 29 now. my love for him has grown over the yrs (where's the sick bucket
grin.gif
) where sadly i think his has declined. i've never cheated on him as i believe its wrong to cheat in a relationship i saw the damage done by that in my parents marriage when i was young. i still get butterflys when i see him (well when im not poking him in the eyes
grin.gif
). i just have this gut feeling that he's cheating on me and then ive wasted 12yrs for nothing well exept for our beautiful son who's just 7.
 
I'm not one to judge, but I have to question it when u been together so long, even have a 7yo child, and he doesn't live with you? Why doesn't he want to be part of a 'family unit'?
 
[ QUOTE ]
yep paid her and sent her home after afew glasses of wine and a rant or two!

[/ QUOTE ]

Ithink I'd have let her stay a while longer and then got a taxi to the pub to find out first hand what the hell was going on? Why would you let someone treat you like this? I'm sorry I really don't mean to judge but???????
 
he has his farm and i have my house (we both live in different areas about 20miles apart) i have poorly parents that i dont want to be far away from (my dads is having treatment for cancer) and he has his elderly mother near him. it's never been a problem untill the last couple of months.
 
what makes it worse is that he will ring me tomoro night and expect everything to be ok and will want to come down to see me! i know im a mug at mild, but i really dont want to be on my own again (as in dating again). sorry wine taking effect now
grin.gif
.what have i done to deserve this?????
confused.gif
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top