Anyone got a large boot.....

benson21

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to give me a great big kick up the arse?
I have got a lovely new pony, of which I am really enjoying, I am now much more mobile, I am back to work, and I have survived.
So, why, why, why am i sitting here feeling so down? :(:(:(
 
I think sometimes when things start going right again, it can bring back to us what we stood to loose after an accident/loss/ etc. You can almost get a second hit of the feelings you might have had at first. Go easy on yourself. Have a hug, get a good load of sleep and start learning how to enjoy what you have again. As well as feeling a bit down, don't beat yourself up about it too!
Have a hot choc (mmm, with whipped cream because we all need more help on a Monday!) and I'll give you a gentle boot up the a**e too!
 
Because what happened to you was beyond awful and you cant be expected not to remember and feel c**p sometimes. Dont beat yourself up just because youre not smiley all the time. I followed your story just after your accident and think its a small miracle you are as chirpy and upbeat as you are given the circumstances, didnt I also read in another post that the case is going to court soon? I think youre just gonna have to go with the flow a bit, you know you are having more good days than bad, you know you have some wonderful stuff in your life but you also still have the old stuff to deal with, you also know that these feelings will lessen with more time. If you still need a kick up the whatsit, when I change into my horsey gear at 5.30pm this evening Ill take my Size 5 welly to the puter!! Let me know.
 
Not sure a size 5 would be big enough!!!:D:D:D
Thank you, I guess I am thinking of the court case, also it will be a year in a coouple of weeks that it happened. I saw the doc on friday to fill out an insurance form, there was one question there about me having a complete recovery, and he put that I would never completely recover, I would always have pain. I knew that, but to see it written down has somewhat brought it home!:(:(
I read through some of my replies I give to other people who are suffering, telling them to allow their feelings, etc, etc, but cant seem to tell myself that!:o:o
 
Couldn't find a boot, but this made me laugh :D

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