SkyBlue
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I have recently taken my boy on a loan with view to buy agreement. I have owned horses before but had to take a break to care for my Dad. My break was for over 12 months and over that time I seem to have lost all my confidence.
I went to see my horse, and rode him from the field. He was really a plod which is what I wanted and was told he would help my confidence. I decided to take him on LWVTB and full payment due for him in January. However, since I have had him is constantly barging me against stable wall, barging out of door when I try to take feed in, swings round trying to squash me when I groom and tack up, refuses to have feet picked and has tried kicking out at me a few times. He also refuses to stand while I mount and won't stand for me to tighten girth etc. He bites too! And in the school he bucked a couple of times. Only small ones but I told the girl i'm buying him from and she was shocked. I have hacked him out alone and although good on the roads I didn't feel 100% safe and as if I was just a passenger, if he wanted to swing round, stop, eat etc he wasn't bothered what I did to stop him!
I have owned ex racing TB's and huge Fresians before but this little 14.3 cob is really testing me and I really don't feel I'm ever going to get my confidence back with him. He seems very different to what I was told about him and how he seemed in the field when I went to view him. I have spoken to the girl I am buying from. He has always been kept out 24/7 but I wanted to stable at night (when I get to my old yard again horse's must be brought in at night in winter so trying to get him used to this as my current stable) the girl told me to keep him out 24/7 to "tyre him out a bit". But this isn't ideal for me and not what I can do at my old yard when I get back there.
Sorry this is so long! My query is where do I stand in cancelling the LWVTB? I want a horse forever, not one i'm going to be unhappy with and sell later. He's making me want to give it all up again. The agreement drawn up had in it "loan can not be terminated at any time". It's making me feel sick as I'm regretting buying another. My Husband is buying him for me and just wants me to be happy (I've had a bad year with death of my dad and me being diagnosed with ME). So talking to him is difficult. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks all. x
I went to see my horse, and rode him from the field. He was really a plod which is what I wanted and was told he would help my confidence. I decided to take him on LWVTB and full payment due for him in January. However, since I have had him is constantly barging me against stable wall, barging out of door when I try to take feed in, swings round trying to squash me when I groom and tack up, refuses to have feet picked and has tried kicking out at me a few times. He also refuses to stand while I mount and won't stand for me to tighten girth etc. He bites too! And in the school he bucked a couple of times. Only small ones but I told the girl i'm buying him from and she was shocked. I have hacked him out alone and although good on the roads I didn't feel 100% safe and as if I was just a passenger, if he wanted to swing round, stop, eat etc he wasn't bothered what I did to stop him!
I have owned ex racing TB's and huge Fresians before but this little 14.3 cob is really testing me and I really don't feel I'm ever going to get my confidence back with him. He seems very different to what I was told about him and how he seemed in the field when I went to view him. I have spoken to the girl I am buying from. He has always been kept out 24/7 but I wanted to stable at night (when I get to my old yard again horse's must be brought in at night in winter so trying to get him used to this as my current stable) the girl told me to keep him out 24/7 to "tyre him out a bit". But this isn't ideal for me and not what I can do at my old yard when I get back there.
Sorry this is so long! My query is where do I stand in cancelling the LWVTB? I want a horse forever, not one i'm going to be unhappy with and sell later. He's making me want to give it all up again. The agreement drawn up had in it "loan can not be terminated at any time". It's making me feel sick as I'm regretting buying another. My Husband is buying him for me and just wants me to be happy (I've had a bad year with death of my dad and me being diagnosed with ME). So talking to him is difficult. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks all. x