WishfulThinker
Well-Known Member
I ask because I am noticing that folk seem to think that my cob is suitable for just anyone to ride......or not as much work as other horses.
Ok he is good with beginners, but he can be a challenge to someone who pushes him - in that he will try and test you (refusing to stop, taking off, massive leaps over jumps etc) But is 99% well behaved all the time.
And so I have also been classified as not really a good enough ride to ride other peoples horses because my horse is well behaved, and doesn't have any vices or isn't sensitive to things and so doesn't create.
It irks me slightly - because I CHOOSE to ride a horse that behaves rather than one that I spend most of my energy trying to keep from exploding. I am not nervous, but I do like to know what to expect from a horse, and of course don't like rearers or ones that are known to freak out (but who does really???). That doesn't mean I cant handle a flightier ride, bt most people seem to think it does
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When I was younger I used to ride the 'problem' horses because I could come off and just get back on and try and try and try again. But that becomes boring after a while (and eventually painful!).
I have a mate that seems to think that its ok for her mates to ride my horse as he puts up with it, but yet her horse is too 'special' for anyone else to ride. And yes I know that we all do this. My horse doesn't tank off after landing from a jump, and so that seems to make him 'slow' and crap at jumping (that would be why I have 6 rosettes for the 8 times I have taken him jumping co she is that bad at it!), just because he doesn't hurl himself over the jumps uncontrollably and hollow!
Sorry............I just need a whine today as its just so bugging that folk always over look my boy
. I think he is a wee star and I trust him 99% (1% of him is a bloody devil!!), and my heart melts when he comes trotting over the field when he sees me coming - even a field away.
Why do the majority of people seem to think that to make you a good horse person, or your horse 'special' they have to have faults/vices that you 'control'? A good horse person would 1st work to eradicate those vices, find out WHY they have them, not just ignore them and then be proud because they can handle them.
Massive cookies and wine if you got that far............If any of it makes sense to you, congrats! lol.
Ok he is good with beginners, but he can be a challenge to someone who pushes him - in that he will try and test you (refusing to stop, taking off, massive leaps over jumps etc) But is 99% well behaved all the time.
And so I have also been classified as not really a good enough ride to ride other peoples horses because my horse is well behaved, and doesn't have any vices or isn't sensitive to things and so doesn't create.
It irks me slightly - because I CHOOSE to ride a horse that behaves rather than one that I spend most of my energy trying to keep from exploding. I am not nervous, but I do like to know what to expect from a horse, and of course don't like rearers or ones that are known to freak out (but who does really???). That doesn't mean I cant handle a flightier ride, bt most people seem to think it does
When I was younger I used to ride the 'problem' horses because I could come off and just get back on and try and try and try again. But that becomes boring after a while (and eventually painful!).
I have a mate that seems to think that its ok for her mates to ride my horse as he puts up with it, but yet her horse is too 'special' for anyone else to ride. And yes I know that we all do this. My horse doesn't tank off after landing from a jump, and so that seems to make him 'slow' and crap at jumping (that would be why I have 6 rosettes for the 8 times I have taken him jumping co she is that bad at it!), just because he doesn't hurl himself over the jumps uncontrollably and hollow!
Sorry............I just need a whine today as its just so bugging that folk always over look my boy
Why do the majority of people seem to think that to make you a good horse person, or your horse 'special' they have to have faults/vices that you 'control'? A good horse person would 1st work to eradicate those vices, find out WHY they have them, not just ignore them and then be proud because they can handle them.
Massive cookies and wine if you got that far............If any of it makes sense to you, congrats! lol.