Gemsie
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Also posted in CR...
Hi All,
Just wanted to throw the question out there and get people opinions really.
The background to this question is pretty long, but will give you the shortest possible version I can.
My mare is 6 years old, gets extermely tense and stressy - has since before I got her, I know the lady I got her from found her very fussy in the mouth and tried various bits.
I have also tried her in various bits, myler comfort snaffle, rubber snaffle, french link etc etc - she does pretty much everything she can to evade the bit, chewing, sticking her tongue out, getting it over the bit, she tries most of the time to run through my hands, and becomes pretty rigid against the bit. I have also tried various nose bands and my instructor bascially suggested srapping her mouth shut so she cant run away from me but I really want us to be a team, and for her to be comfortable.
She has a pretty fat tongue - typical warmblood mouth shape really..
I have tried endless things to improve this, but over the last few weeks (i think hormones have added to it) her behaviour has got worse and worse.
I have the vet and saddler booked to come and see her in the next week or so, also her teeth are fine were done approx 2.5 months ago.
Tonight I lunged her in loose side reins, and she had a full blown frap out, bucking squealing, tense and choppy not going forward - really really unsettled in her mouth - prob as bad as I have ever seen her.
She was like something posessed.
I took her back round to the yard (after thinking that the bit is the cause of this behaviour) and put her in her headcollar only, lunged again (sorry dont have a lunge cavesson to hand - its prob at home somewhere) she was a completely different horse, i mean 100% totally the opposite of what she was like with the bridle on.... 5 mins later i jumped on, again only in the headcollar with leadropes clipped either side, she walked and trotted round like a saint (something which I have not been used to for a long time).
Do you think it could be the bit which has caused her behaviour changes? I am just a bit in shock by the unbelievable difference in her without the bridle....
I am pretty experienced and know the bridle fits correctly, and I try my best to ride with good kind hands so I dont think the issue is with my riding, I think its a physical issue somewhere as her response is like fright or pain in the bridle....
If anyone has any thoughts on this or similar previous experiences I would love to hear about them,
Blimey just read this after posting and thought id best apologise for the length of it! thanks if you made it this far!
Many thanks
Gems
Hi All,
Just wanted to throw the question out there and get people opinions really.
The background to this question is pretty long, but will give you the shortest possible version I can.
My mare is 6 years old, gets extermely tense and stressy - has since before I got her, I know the lady I got her from found her very fussy in the mouth and tried various bits.
I have also tried her in various bits, myler comfort snaffle, rubber snaffle, french link etc etc - she does pretty much everything she can to evade the bit, chewing, sticking her tongue out, getting it over the bit, she tries most of the time to run through my hands, and becomes pretty rigid against the bit. I have also tried various nose bands and my instructor bascially suggested srapping her mouth shut so she cant run away from me but I really want us to be a team, and for her to be comfortable.
She has a pretty fat tongue - typical warmblood mouth shape really..
I have tried endless things to improve this, but over the last few weeks (i think hormones have added to it) her behaviour has got worse and worse.
I have the vet and saddler booked to come and see her in the next week or so, also her teeth are fine were done approx 2.5 months ago.
Tonight I lunged her in loose side reins, and she had a full blown frap out, bucking squealing, tense and choppy not going forward - really really unsettled in her mouth - prob as bad as I have ever seen her.
She was like something posessed.
I took her back round to the yard (after thinking that the bit is the cause of this behaviour) and put her in her headcollar only, lunged again (sorry dont have a lunge cavesson to hand - its prob at home somewhere) she was a completely different horse, i mean 100% totally the opposite of what she was like with the bridle on.... 5 mins later i jumped on, again only in the headcollar with leadropes clipped either side, she walked and trotted round like a saint (something which I have not been used to for a long time).
Do you think it could be the bit which has caused her behaviour changes? I am just a bit in shock by the unbelievable difference in her without the bridle....
I am pretty experienced and know the bridle fits correctly, and I try my best to ride with good kind hands so I dont think the issue is with my riding, I think its a physical issue somewhere as her response is like fright or pain in the bridle....
If anyone has any thoughts on this or similar previous experiences I would love to hear about them,
Blimey just read this after posting and thought id best apologise for the length of it! thanks if you made it this far!
Many thanks
Gems