I know 6 men who ride, and only 1 is gay. 1 who isn't get occasionally gets chatted up by men at dressage comps and some get very miffed when they find out he doesn't bat for their team!
There are hundreds of men ride in my area but it's seasonal for most and applies only to the common ridings. Of all the male members in my riding club only one is gay AFAIK
I keep my horse at a fairly big competition yard, we have one gay (male) groom...but all the other men on the yard are straight, this includes the owners of the yard and other livery owners.
TelH your not the only gay women in the village!! I'm with you!
this might sound terribly stereotypical but all the good male riders i know are gay and all the crap ones are straight....but definitely think that show jumping is for straight men only wheras dressage and eventing is more the other way....
Dressage...tends to gay maybe 80%?
Showwing...95% gay probably more.
Jumping...50/50
Eventing....30% gay
Hunting...80% straight
Western sports 98% straight..maybe higher!...and any that are not are in the closet!
Jockeys....95% straight...and generally oversexed little perverts with severe small man syndrome! LOL