Gallopgirl95
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I have to start this post by saying that I love my mare, she truly taught me more than any other horse has and this is so hard to even type.
I have a 14 year old mare who just seems to be falling apart. Last year we found she had cysts in both her front heels, so she has been semi-retired with some (expensive!) heel elevating shoes on now and can only be ridden in walk. She still has lame days despite the corrective shoes and there's nothing that can change that. She's not in any pain but it's still incredibly disheartening.
Now I've had the dentist out and they've found she's got a supernumerary tooth which could cost about £2000 to remove. She's not insured and I don't have anything near that sort of money, I could cry with how much this has stressed me out.
I don't know what to do. I'm leaving for university in September and part of me wonders if it wouldn't be better to put the mare down. It would be very hard finding a loaner willing to take on a mare that, even though she's semi-retired, is expensive to keep because of her shoes. I also worry that if she goes lame and it gets worse (i.e, if she started hurting) then I wouldn't be there to help her, and I can't stand the thought of her being in pain and me not being there to comfort her.
Any thoughts please? I'm not here to get yelled at so please keep nasty comments to yourself, I really just need to get some points of view on this.
I have a 14 year old mare who just seems to be falling apart. Last year we found she had cysts in both her front heels, so she has been semi-retired with some (expensive!) heel elevating shoes on now and can only be ridden in walk. She still has lame days despite the corrective shoes and there's nothing that can change that. She's not in any pain but it's still incredibly disheartening.
Now I've had the dentist out and they've found she's got a supernumerary tooth which could cost about £2000 to remove. She's not insured and I don't have anything near that sort of money, I could cry with how much this has stressed me out.
I don't know what to do. I'm leaving for university in September and part of me wonders if it wouldn't be better to put the mare down. It would be very hard finding a loaner willing to take on a mare that, even though she's semi-retired, is expensive to keep because of her shoes. I also worry that if she goes lame and it gets worse (i.e, if she started hurting) then I wouldn't be there to help her, and I can't stand the thought of her being in pain and me not being there to comfort her.
Any thoughts please? I'm not here to get yelled at so please keep nasty comments to yourself, I really just need to get some points of view on this.