BlairandAzria
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OK so apologies this has run pretty long:
So horse is 14, but very green. Unsure of his early history although know he spent the 3 years prior to me owning him sat in a field doing absolutely nothing. Ive had him 2 years, hes an ex-pacer, although he hardly paces at all anymore, has a decent trot and getting there canter, hes pretty scopey the height isnt an issue for him at all.
Took him to a camp this past weekend weather was gorgeous  I struggle with my confidence jumping but over the past 6 months have tried really hard to get out and do a bit more jumping with him, even if its just a clear round or cross pole class, I figured that any nice clear confident building round is good experience. We have had issues with fillers, in that he will get super close then spin and refuse (often ditching me in the process), this issue is not resolved at all, I just havent pushed it and went back to staying within his comfort zone of jumps about 2ft3, poles, spreads, doubles etc all fine just no fillers and hes been doing really well .
Weve done a little tiny bit of xc, always with an instructor. Last time I went to Somerford xc I was panicking, very frightened, but got on with it and the horse flew absolutely everything, tyres, log piles, water, small roll-top etc, didnt look and not once did he spin or even think about refusing (even though I was bricking it most of the time). So I kindof thought my jumping issues where possibly confined to showjumping (maybe the coloured poles and fillers were putting him off?) and that xc was going to be his thing .
Well .roll on this past weekend and were back at somerford. XC Id taken a couple of kalms and was feeling really positive about it, there was a group of 4 of us and we popped over a little log a couple of times (easy peasy, trot and pop totally fine) then went to a slightly bigger, but still little roll-top (must have been 2f3 max)let him have a look at it, sniff it and took him up to it, and again totally flew it, took him over it a few more times each time fine. Then we moved to a little jump of 3 logs together, still small,if not smaller than the roll-top, took him up to it, let him sniff it, then cantered up to it and he got quite close to it but popped it just fine, I then took him round again to go straight back over it. He was in a nice canter, I felt secure my heels were down, my lower leg secure, my shoulders back and felt mentally positive in my mind I was already over it, he was travelling really nicely, taking me into it (getting a little strong if anything, but not overly) his ears were pricked forward, when he went to take off, got 2 feet off the ground then suddenly spun 180 degrees and I went tumbling out the side door and glanced off the jump . Luckily I had my kan and a friends point 2 over it so the point 2 inflated and I walked away totally fine except for a slightly stiff neck, I feel bad for one of the mums of one of the kids in my group who didnt realise I had an air jacket on and thought the crack of it inflating was my back breaking as I hit the jump  (thank goodness it wasnt).
So my issue is, that I had been assuming that all my jumping woes were because I am a total wimp and the horse was obviously feeling that, being green he lacks the experience and confidence in himself and needs me to man up, every other time hes span at a jump I know that I was sat there thinking *oh god oh god oh god, dont spin dont spin* and I know I have transferred that anxiety to him. But this time, I really do not feel like I was panicked at all, I felt calm and confident, my lower leg was secure, I wasnt in front of the movement, the instructor said she didnt see it coming and didnt think I did anything wrong at all so im massively disheartened and dont really know where to turn next?
Does anyone have any experience with a horse that does this gets in super close than at the last minute says no? any idea how to combat it?
And what do I do now, should I just keep trying? Taking him over tiny weany logs all summer? Should I get someone decent to ride him over some fences (although I dont really think this would help me that much? But might help him?)
or just give up for 6 months, work really hard on his flat work and get his canter a lot stronger and then come back to jumping later in the year (although I kindof feel that if I take a break the tiny strand of confidence Im hanging onto by a thread might have vanished if I leave it too long)
So sorry this is a pretty epic long post, any advice or hints or experience very much appreciated!
So horse is 14, but very green. Unsure of his early history although know he spent the 3 years prior to me owning him sat in a field doing absolutely nothing. Ive had him 2 years, hes an ex-pacer, although he hardly paces at all anymore, has a decent trot and getting there canter, hes pretty scopey the height isnt an issue for him at all.
Took him to a camp this past weekend weather was gorgeous  I struggle with my confidence jumping but over the past 6 months have tried really hard to get out and do a bit more jumping with him, even if its just a clear round or cross pole class, I figured that any nice clear confident building round is good experience. We have had issues with fillers, in that he will get super close then spin and refuse (often ditching me in the process), this issue is not resolved at all, I just havent pushed it and went back to staying within his comfort zone of jumps about 2ft3, poles, spreads, doubles etc all fine just no fillers and hes been doing really well .
Weve done a little tiny bit of xc, always with an instructor. Last time I went to Somerford xc I was panicking, very frightened, but got on with it and the horse flew absolutely everything, tyres, log piles, water, small roll-top etc, didnt look and not once did he spin or even think about refusing (even though I was bricking it most of the time). So I kindof thought my jumping issues where possibly confined to showjumping (maybe the coloured poles and fillers were putting him off?) and that xc was going to be his thing .
Well .roll on this past weekend and were back at somerford. XC Id taken a couple of kalms and was feeling really positive about it, there was a group of 4 of us and we popped over a little log a couple of times (easy peasy, trot and pop totally fine) then went to a slightly bigger, but still little roll-top (must have been 2f3 max)let him have a look at it, sniff it and took him up to it, and again totally flew it, took him over it a few more times each time fine. Then we moved to a little jump of 3 logs together, still small,if not smaller than the roll-top, took him up to it, let him sniff it, then cantered up to it and he got quite close to it but popped it just fine, I then took him round again to go straight back over it. He was in a nice canter, I felt secure my heels were down, my lower leg secure, my shoulders back and felt mentally positive in my mind I was already over it, he was travelling really nicely, taking me into it (getting a little strong if anything, but not overly) his ears were pricked forward, when he went to take off, got 2 feet off the ground then suddenly spun 180 degrees and I went tumbling out the side door and glanced off the jump . Luckily I had my kan and a friends point 2 over it so the point 2 inflated and I walked away totally fine except for a slightly stiff neck, I feel bad for one of the mums of one of the kids in my group who didnt realise I had an air jacket on and thought the crack of it inflating was my back breaking as I hit the jump  (thank goodness it wasnt).
So my issue is, that I had been assuming that all my jumping woes were because I am a total wimp and the horse was obviously feeling that, being green he lacks the experience and confidence in himself and needs me to man up, every other time hes span at a jump I know that I was sat there thinking *oh god oh god oh god, dont spin dont spin* and I know I have transferred that anxiety to him. But this time, I really do not feel like I was panicked at all, I felt calm and confident, my lower leg was secure, I wasnt in front of the movement, the instructor said she didnt see it coming and didnt think I did anything wrong at all so im massively disheartened and dont really know where to turn next?
Does anyone have any experience with a horse that does this gets in super close than at the last minute says no? any idea how to combat it?
And what do I do now, should I just keep trying? Taking him over tiny weany logs all summer? Should I get someone decent to ride him over some fences (although I dont really think this would help me that much? But might help him?)
or just give up for 6 months, work really hard on his flat work and get his canter a lot stronger and then come back to jumping later in the year (although I kindof feel that if I take a break the tiny strand of confidence Im hanging onto by a thread might have vanished if I leave it too long)
So sorry this is a pretty epic long post, any advice or hints or experience very much appreciated!