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He sounds as if he is only ridden in the school, I would try and get him out hacking, if only to give him more to think about.
I don't ride in side reins....never thought of that TBH but I adopt the same approach....straight in, trot figures and circles and change of direction....trying to walk nicely straight off results in jogging and messing, going large = walk of death. None of this is helped by me having to school in the field. Neck strap is vital piece of equipment too lol.He sounds fresh and silly! In an ideal world, you'd be best off getting on him,being the boss, riding him forward positively, and giving him something to think about, other than spooking. I appreciate that you are nervous, and it's very hard to take charge when you're worried. Definitely lunge him first to take the tickle out of his toes, and pop some side reins on him once he's had a bit of a blast, so he has to settle down and work properly. I'd avoid doing too much lunging though, or you'll fine hes getting very fit, which will just exacerbate the freshness and silliness! 10 mins should be enough to take the edge off him, and then you can get on and crack on. You could always keep the side reins on for a bit too - they won't stop him spooking, but will make it slightly harder for him to spin - that'll help with your nerves!
If it were me, I'd get on, put him straight into trot and work him on a figure of eight with lots of transitions, both between paces and within the pace, including indirect transitions - trot/halt/trot. I wouldn't do more than half a circle without a transition or change of rein, so he never got a chance to get distracted and start mucking around. If he spooked ith me, I'd give him a good kick, and a growl. You're not putting him in a scary situation, so you're well within your rights to tell him that spooking isn't acceptable. If he's never told that spooking isn't behaviour you want, he'll never know! If you take on a young horse, you take on the responsibility of continuing his education, and that includes letting him know what is and isn't good ridden behaviour.
I ride everything in a neck strap, and my horses are taught that a pull on the neck strap means stop. It means I can hack them on a long rein without touching their mouths every time I want them to slow down or stop, and also acts a a useful handle if they prat about - with the added bonus of them thinking "Ooh, she wants me to stop" if they start acting up, and I grab the neckstrap!