Athena has cancer

Sorry to hear this. :( Agree that you need to speak to the vet again, also agree that you need to let it sink in first.

From experience, I would say the same as amymay. Having seen owners trying to keep them going, it doesn't end well, including one that the owner put through having their tail amputated to try and slow it down. I understand why they did it, but like to think that I wouldn't do the same.

Big hugs, and we all know you will do what's best after talking things through with the vet.
 
miss_c said:
Sorry to hear this. :( Agree that you need to speak to the vet again, also agree that you need to let it sink in first.

From experience, I would say the same as amymay. Having seen owners trying to keep them going, it doesn't end well, including one that the owner put through having their tail amputated to try and slow it down. I understand why they did it, but like to think that I wouldn't do the same.

Big hugs, and we all know you will do what's best after talking things through with the vet.
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no point puttin em through it for ur satisfaction, vet tomorrow nd depending on what he sees best i shall think she will b pts nd out of pain very soon

Maria13 said:
Gosh, so sorry to hear this RileyBoy :'( I know that u will take good care of her and make the right decisions for her. Hope you are okay :(
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Thank you, its a hard time for both of us !
not settin in yet just very shocked
 
literally gone through this this week, out of the blue to tumours, liver cancer, spleen cancer and abscesses and it is horrific, havent cried this much ever, husband cant sleep, just so traumatic - gone far far too young and like above, just typical of our gorgeous boy to go out with a bang

you never see as much dignity and honour as a horse who knows the end is coming but fights until he drops - they put humans to shame

all our other horses ran over neighing, knowing he was leaving for good and we all said our goodbyes - these animals are amazing, you just know something different is in the air on such a horrible day

better a day too soon than a day too late but let yourself grieve, its hit us very hard and in waves, one minute laughing at something daft and the next, floods of tears about how unfair it is, but that is testament to just how brilliant an animal we had and how honoured and grateful we were to know him, even if it was such a short time.
 
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shiresrus123 said:
literally gone through this this week, out of the blue to tumours, liver cancer, spleen cancer and abscesses and it is horrific, havent cried this much ever - gone far far too young and like above, just typical of our gorgeous boy to go out with a bang

you never see as much dignity and honour as a horse who knows the end is coming but fights until he drops

all our other horses ran over neighing, knowing he was leaving for good and we all said our goodbyes - these animals are amazing, you just know something different is in the air on such a horrible day

better a day too soon than a day too late but let yourself grieve, its hit us very hard but is testament to just how brilliant an animal we had and how honoured and grateful we were to know him, even if it was such a short time.
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so so sorry to hear this, its painful to say the least, ur boy sounded lovly hav to think of what they gave us nt what they took with them
 
Sending hugs and support your way, I know how hard it is to lose a horse, and know you will do whats best. Keep us updated, feel like Athena has become a little hero to everybody on here xx
 
Maria13 said:
Sending hugs and support your way, I know how hard it is to lose a horse, and know you will do whats best. Keep us updated, feel like Athena has become a little hero to everybody on here xx
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Thanks cld do with one :(

Am glad she has, she really is a sweet girl
 
So sorry to hear this Rileyboy, I have been reading about Athena's updates. I really feel for you, such a horrible situation and always such a shock to hear the C word. Sending hugs from rainy South Wales and have a glass of wine tonight to gather your thoughts for tomorrow morning xx
 
I haven't posted on your threads before but have loved seeing pics of Athena, she really is gorgeous. I am SO sorry this has happened, sending you both lots of love.

It's the hardest thing to do this for a much loved horse I know, especially one so young, but you are doing the right thing.
 
what horrible news. I think everyone here is in no doubt that you will do whatever is best for Athena. You have made quite an impression in the short time you have been here. You will get lots of support on here to help you deal with this. big virtual hug from scotland xx
 
BillyBob-Sleigh said:
So sorry to hear this Rileyboy, I have been reading about Athena's updates. I really feel for you, such a horrible situation and always such a shock to hear the C word. Sending hugs from rainy South Wales and have a glass of wine tonight to gather your thoughts for tomorrow morning xx
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need more than wine, straight whisky it is, shall do wat is best for her.

sychnant said:
I haven't posted on your threads before but have loved seeing pics of Athena, she really is gorgeous. I am SO sorry this has happened, sending you both lots of love.

It's the hardest thing to do this for a much loved horse I know, especially one so young, but you are doing the right thing.
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Thank u means alot to have so much support

Red Nosed Old Bat said:
Blast and bless you, horrible time for you and Athena. Not posted before but am a silent follower. Hugs and peaceful thoughts coming your way x
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Thank you, hopefuly everything goes quickly :(
 
festnuttyfairy said:
what horrible news. I think everyone here is in no doubt that you will do whatever is best for Athena. You have made quite an impression in the short time you have been here. You will get lots of support on here to help you deal with this. big virtual hug from scotland xx
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i will do, she deserves the best, am lucky to have so much support dont no what i wld do otherwise ! thank u so mcuh
 
I am another one that hasn't posted before but have been hoping for good news for Athena.

I'm so very sorry to hear this. She is such a lucky girl to have had you in her short life.

Big hugs for you both xxx
 
So sorry to hear this devestating news. Not posted before on your threads but been following them. Poor Athena and poor you hugs xx
 
Bertolie said:
I am another one that hasn't posted before but have been hoping for good news for Athena.

I'm so very sorry to hear this. She is such a lucky girl to have had you in her short life.

Big hugs for you both xxx
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thank you, at least she has had sum good times :(
 
Rileyboy said:
Vet rang today gt tests back nd she has cancer.... Cancer

Im shocked, worried nd cant think straight.


Didnt listen to what the vet preposed to do all tht is going thro my head in cancer.

cancer kills
cant explain how awfull i feel my girl has cancer :(
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First of all, don't panic. Ring the vet and ask him/her to explain carefully again what stage the disease is at and what the prognosis is, the possible treatments and the best way to deal with it. Ask questions if there is anything you don't understand and make notes. Most importantly, be prepared to do what the vet says is the best thing for Athena even if it seems a very hard decision.

By all means look the disease up on the internet but don't take all you read at face value.
 
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