AbFab
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Definitely need to work on the core!! If I wasn't such a ball of flubber I'd have been able to haul myself back into the saddle
Well if the kent and masters tree works for her you might be able to get away with a thorowgood
Thank you all
I have a man come ride her once a fortnight. He jumps her and fires her around. She looks fantastic with him and she jumps all sorts! This is the canter he has with her. Some people have thought it is too fast, I'm not so sure. I don't know if I'd have the confidence to do it with her, but if it's the canter I need then I'll just have to get used to it.
(Granted she fluffed her striding to the last in this but she went)
http://youtu.be/dkm13EbB4Kg
This is her jumping at home with me a couple of weeks ago. In comparison, it is very sedate. She felt good when she got into her stride though and was taking me towards fences without the revs dropping off. Once she is confident over a fence she'll jump it all day long with minimal input from me. It's the new fences she worries about.
http://youtu.be/OgxyldZb5SM
This is the clear round we did last month. I can see the difference in her canter coming up to fences she doesn't mind compared to ones she hesitates at. I knew as soon as I saw this video that I only started riding at fences way too late, I needed to solve the canter problems way before a fence. 3 strides before it is not good enough.
http://youtu.be/zU017b3wMKM
How is she in open spaces with friends? I'd be so tempted to ask a friend on a very sensible horse to go XC schooling with me and find a venue with lots of small fences, and then hold onto the neckstrap and follow your friend round. I was really really nervous about jumping, and this resulted in me completely killing the canter to make myself feel safer. Only it made everything harder. I did lots of pairs XC with my mad and very confident little sister where I could get used to the extra speed.
It took ages, and when I got nervous it was so hard to not stomp all the 'oomph' out. But now I have the opposite problem- when I'm nervous I kick like anything and go far too fast!!
You haven't ruined her, don't even go there. The man has the right canter. Its engaged, its forward and it looks like he's doing very little. He's not firing, in fact between the first and second fence he actually does a half halt to rebalance her. The momentum he has makes jumping an easier option than stopping. If you're not sure this is true, look at how you're fall occured at the weekend - jumping from a standstill with no forward impulsion.
In your second video, you don't have as much impulsion as the man in the first but it's still miles better than what you do at a show (only judging by the videos you've posted). That sort of canter is probably ok at home with familiar fences in a familiar arena but at show where she backs off you need to be replicating the man's canter.
In your third video you can see your problems at the first fence. You come around the corner, give a kick and instead of her going forward she actually drops back to a trot meaning there is no reaction to your aids.
I wonder is the reaction in front of the fences that she's unsure something that she's picking up from you? A good experiment might be to build a fence you think she'd hesistate at. Ask the man who rides her to jump 4 fences in a row with the scary fence as the last fence. See what happens, does she hesitate, does he need to push her on, does the impulsion they already have carry them over it? Ask him afterwards did she feel different in front of the last fence. Video it and see can you see a difference. I think from some of your other posts she's a very strong character (I'm remembering the contact journey) but she's also willing to learn and change. Just see this as another part of your journey, it absolutely can get better and I'm sure she'd be highly insulted if she heard you describe her as ruined!
I was just annoyed I didn't get to do the fun rustic jumps! She's fine with those
Yes I know what you mean about dropping her. I think it's a result of me thinking 'will she stop?' and just preparing myself for that. Not helpful at all! I need to get into the habit of riding her to the other side of the fence.
Transitions will help immensely to get a good canter. Trot to canter for a few strides, back to trot, ask for canter again. Walk to canter gets mine really thinking forward, but you need to get an active walk and really set them up for it. Best after the trot to canter to trot work. Another one is a figure of 8, with trot over X then picking up canter. Again, it gets their brains working. You don't want strung out but you do want active and forward.
You need to remember that you were there competing and be very proud of yourself for that alone!!! If you never have a go and try then you will never improve. Keep up the good work and enjoy the painkillers while you have them
P.S. My friend is in the working in on one of you pics
I'd stick a neckstrap on, as when I get scared I pull too. If there's a neckstrap I can pull on that with no ill effects
And also, falling off at speed generally hurts way less than falling off slowly. Speed, you normally will get flung off and hit the ground on your back or bum. Slowly, you go like a javelin head first... Well, in my experience anyway!
She has to canter NOW and go immediately into the canter you want, not get there on the instalment plan.
Ouch! Hope you are feeling ok today, although you're provably still crazy if you're craft enough to jump in a dressage saddle, respect.
It's really good that you have all the videos of her jumping. I have videos of me jumping when I think I'm going ok and it looks like I'm barely moving anywhere, horse is just merrily bowling along in his own little sedate world. The days when I'm really going for it, pushing on I feel like I'm going really quite fast, then I look at the videos and I can see that actually I just look normal lol
So I'm going to be stealing tips from here when I get cantering again,and jumping too fingers crossed