Bad Day

GS I am so sorry you had such a bad time, but you did the right thing.

I had exactly the same earlier this year. Horse went berserk hunting, I put him in the lorry when he was calm and he went berserk again, getting half over the partition and ending up on his back with all four feet pointed at the ceiling. It was just the latest in a series of bits off odd behaviour and although he was unhurt, I had him put down with the blessing of the person who gave him to me, before he hurt someone.

It is the hardest decision to put down a healthy horse :(

Hopefully you'll feel better about it after a bottle of wine and a night's sleep.
 
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What an awful experience to go through. I do think you've done exactly the right thing and, frankly, i'd be more worried about you if you didn't feel bad. As somebody said upthread it isn't like it was a planned PTS or forced by injury/illness. Hugs to you
 
That must have been terrifying, I can totally understand why you took the decision to have him PTS. So horrid when it is unexpected like that, everything seems to happen so fast. Hope you're feeling a bit better now.
 
A brave decision well made. I was in a similar situation with my old boy who was utterly laid back but would occasionally lose the plot for no apparent reason. This got gradually worse and it eventually became apparent he had arthritis. When planning his,treatment with the vet my bottom line was if he became dangerous to handle, I would call it quits. Sadly it transpired to be the case despite injections Bute rest turnout etc. I made the call to pts before someone got hurt even though perhaps there was more that could have been done physically. I don't regret it. He knew nothing about it and I knew he and all around him were safe. Never doubt you have done the right thing. We have a duty not to endanger ourselves and others and you took the responsible course of action. Now go drink wine and stay warm.
 
Goldenstar, I am so so sorry. He was a stunning boy- really drew the eye, and you drove him extremely well.

Having been there at the training weekend last year, and seen the aftermath of his side stable following one of his escapes, I understand what you mean about the havoc he could create. I thought it was only side stables- didn't realise he'd done it in other situations.

You have been so brave, and for what it's worth, I think you have done totally the right thing. Huge hugs from me- that's the hardest decision to make as a horse owner, but the right thing to do you him and you both.

Kate x
 
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Goldenstar, I am so so sorry. He was a stunning boy- really drew the eye, and you drove him extremely well.

Having been there at the training weekend last year, and seen the aftermath of his side stable following one of his escapes, I understand what you mean about the havoc he could create. I thought it was only side stables- didn't realise he'd done it in other situations.

You have been so brave, and for what it's worth, I think you have done totally the right thing. Huge hugs from me- that's the hardest decision to make as a horse owner, but the right thing to do you him and you both.

Kate x
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Oh Thankyou he was very handsome .

Thanks again every one ,watching telly in bed tomorrow is another day.
 
Horses are unknowable things sometimes, and sometimes we cannot help them to live with themselves and us no matter how hard we try.
 
What an awful day for you :(
So sorry about your boy but what a caring and responsible person...not to mention brave. It doesn't matter who made the decision, its going to hurt. Big hugs xxxx
 
You will be in shock after that, so take care of yourself.
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss but glad you are unhurt. You were able to make the right decision in a crisis and lucky to come through it unscathed, once the shock wears off.
Horrible thing to go through, though.
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That is a terrible situation. A very brave decision. Not sure if its one I'd be able to make as I'm cowardly in those circumstances. But I think of the man killed in the box with his panicked cob and know it was the right decision for you to have him PTS. I hope I have the strength to make such a call if it is needed in the future.
I hope you're ok x
 
Oh heck, what a horrible thing for you to endure. You made a very brave decision. There must have been something wrong in his brain for him to flip like that. Some sort of blind panic attack? You poor thing. You must feel wretched.
 
GS, you made the only decision that a brave and sane person could make. The horse is at peace and can never be so frightened again that he will panic like he did. He'll never hurt anyone, or himself.

Pat yourself on the back for a good decision, quickly made. Have plenty of nice hot tea (cures all ills :) ) To.morrow will be easier.
 
A very brave and unselfish decision. He's at peace now. Some problems cannot be answered or solved and you did the kindest thing. Noone was injured himself included and that's got to be right. Hugs to you and keep your happy memories x
 
Very sorry to read this GS. We all accept that horses have physical illnesses but mental illnesses are invisible. Tough call but you made a decision based on the horse and people's safety. Sending cyber support.
 
Such sad news to read and an awful situation for you. All I can say what a wonderful and brave decision you made for him, clearly you are a true caring person and for that I'm sure he will always be grateful. Hope you start to feel better quickly!
 
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Is someone coming to pick him up for you GS?

Thinking of you xx
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They have not been for him yet I wish they would .
He also got to go in the skip at the kennels as he was injected and will have to go to be burnt I am trying not to think of that I have always had them shot they get fed to the Hounds I know it makes no difference but I hate the thought of him a skip.
However hey ho it was my choice to get in done last night I could have had him shot today .
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. You're one of the posters on here who consistently impresses me with your down to earth and sensible knowledge and yesterday, in the most crucial situation, you did what needed to be done.
Hope you're feeling better today GS. Sometimes, having horses is blooming tough.
 
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