Firewell
Well-Known Member
Hello all,
I guess I am writing this just to get my thoughts onto paper really and to have the support?!
I have decided to put my beloved horse up for sale. This isn't an Ad or anything as, well we live here in America lol. I have tried my best since getting back into riding to start where I left off since having my 2nd baby but I simply do not have the time. I could say it's fine to only ride him 3x per week and to go up briefly to check he has 4 legs (if I can even do that) on the other days but I know it's not fine. It's not fine to my beautiful horse who is used to being number 1 and then number 2 on my list. Not number 4 which is what he is right now. He's not ready for this semi-retirement, he has too much life left and too much to offer someone else.
It is frustrating me when he needs more work and I only have 30 mins. It's not fair when I dump him back out in the field soaking wet after washing him down because I don't have time to dry him properly. I have tried having dressage lessons but I am not enjoying it as much as I should. There's no competition to aim for. I could enjoy him as a pleasant hack but this on light work he is not. He is spooky and excitable because of course he is bored and fresh.
I have advertised him and I have had a few calls. Mainly from young ladies, students of 3* and 4* eventers looking for a partner to have fun on eventing. I have had calls from older adult amature riders with the time to compete and for him to be their baby. I know he will love feeling special again and he will love showing them how brave and good he is at his job. He wants to go hacking, and up the gallops and XC schooling. Not a quick plod round the field or in the school for a quick pointless session *again*.
I know I am doing the right thing for both of us, but it is still so hard. He is my dream horse but then the dream changes. The horse suitable for me in my 20's is not the horse that is suitable for me in my 30's with 2 babies.
I think I will buy something else. Something smaller that I can share with my children in the future. Something of a different ilk. I have been looking at a 14.3hh Costa Rican horse. Yes very different! Not a jumper or a dressage horse but a pretty little hacking horse that I can not feel guilty about. Something I can pick up at the weekends and meet my friends to explore this beautiful countryside. Something to relax on, have a canter and look at the scenery.
I can always return to a competition horse in the future. So for now I am getting my beloved Jae's back done, his jabs and his teeth to make sure he is tip top for his next home and I am going to be oh so picky! Only the best for my beautiful boy .
I guess I am writing this just to get my thoughts onto paper really and to have the support?!
I have decided to put my beloved horse up for sale. This isn't an Ad or anything as, well we live here in America lol. I have tried my best since getting back into riding to start where I left off since having my 2nd baby but I simply do not have the time. I could say it's fine to only ride him 3x per week and to go up briefly to check he has 4 legs (if I can even do that) on the other days but I know it's not fine. It's not fine to my beautiful horse who is used to being number 1 and then number 2 on my list. Not number 4 which is what he is right now. He's not ready for this semi-retirement, he has too much life left and too much to offer someone else.
It is frustrating me when he needs more work and I only have 30 mins. It's not fair when I dump him back out in the field soaking wet after washing him down because I don't have time to dry him properly. I have tried having dressage lessons but I am not enjoying it as much as I should. There's no competition to aim for. I could enjoy him as a pleasant hack but this on light work he is not. He is spooky and excitable because of course he is bored and fresh.
I have advertised him and I have had a few calls. Mainly from young ladies, students of 3* and 4* eventers looking for a partner to have fun on eventing. I have had calls from older adult amature riders with the time to compete and for him to be their baby. I know he will love feeling special again and he will love showing them how brave and good he is at his job. He wants to go hacking, and up the gallops and XC schooling. Not a quick plod round the field or in the school for a quick pointless session *again*.
I know I am doing the right thing for both of us, but it is still so hard. He is my dream horse but then the dream changes. The horse suitable for me in my 20's is not the horse that is suitable for me in my 30's with 2 babies.
I think I will buy something else. Something smaller that I can share with my children in the future. Something of a different ilk. I have been looking at a 14.3hh Costa Rican horse. Yes very different! Not a jumper or a dressage horse but a pretty little hacking horse that I can not feel guilty about. Something I can pick up at the weekends and meet my friends to explore this beautiful countryside. Something to relax on, have a canter and look at the scenery.
I can always return to a competition horse in the future. So for now I am getting my beloved Jae's back done, his jabs and his teeth to make sure he is tip top for his next home and I am going to be oh so picky! Only the best for my beautiful boy .