Billy goes to Badminton and boy am I proud of him! :D

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It’s now a week after the long awaited Badminton Grassroots Championships and I can’t believe it’s over! When I last checked in with the HHO crew we had just returned from a slightly frustrating run at Larkhill where a silly 20 penalties had cost us a BE100 win. Our final event before the Championships was the BE100 at Hambleden where this time we made a complete shambles of the show jumping...:( Billy had been a bit wild in the warm up and for some reason I had let the nerves get the better of me and stupidly reverted to the bad old habit of sticking the handbrake. He can give the feeling of running away with me a bit, and I had been a bit crowded in the warm up and didn’t give myself time to take a deep breath and think about what I was doing and the new riding techniques I have worked so hard on over the winter are not quite installed as instinctive yet so the old habits took over. An underpowered canter left us with a rather embarrassing cricket score and our confidence in tatters but luckily he jumped the most brilliant cross country round so at least the Larkhill demons had been laid to rest…
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I had a couple of jumping lessons with my trainer Dan Jocelyn after Hambleden where we worked on repairing our confidence but with just over a week before Badminton it just wasn’t enough time to get us where I really wanted to be in terms of our confidence over coloured poles before the event. Dan even had a sit on him and it was very interesting to hear him describe him as “quirky” and for him to admit that he isn’t as easy as he looks (phew!) - although of course he had him soaring over an enormous course looking like a million dollars! He is a sensitive soul, and unfortunately his confidence seems to be as fragile as mine so it can be a slippery slope when things go awry.

I had some psychological hurdles to get over in the run up to Badminton too. It was very hard not to feel disheartened by the lack of form whilst fellow grassroots competitors seemed to be unbeatable (ahem, Star :p) so I tried to get into my “Billy Bubble” as much as I could. I also booked a session with the BRILLIANT Jo Davies who is a Sports Psychologist and fellow HHOer and she really helped me by pointing out that I needed to ignore the "uncontrollables" around me focus on things that I could control and in effect that meant making sure I had processes in place that helped me deal with potential threats/weaknesses, and make the most of our strengths/opportunities. It put me in a really positive frame of mind, and I decided to ditch the daydreams about winning the title and instead I decided upon two goals:

1- Earn a completion rosette
2- Wake up on Thursday morning with a killer hang over :p

Finally the long awaited day dawned!! The weather forecast was not looking too appealing so the lorry was loaded with mountains of (mainly Horseware!) kit to prepare us for every possible eventuality and we made the trip up the M4 to the beautiful Badminton Estate on the Tuesday morning ahead of a late afternoon dressage. It was such a fabulous feeling arriving at the event in one piece, and breathing a sigh of relief for just making it to the event having tried and failed for the 5 previous years! I took Billy for a quick leg stretch before settling him in his very smart stable which Horseware very kindly decorated with stable banners before setting up our campsite for the week!
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I have spent a lot of time up at Dan Jocelyn’s yard training since December and he has become a good friend and was incredibly kind and offered to come up and support me on both days of the competition. Dan was instrumental in helping me get Billy exactly where I wanted him in the warm up before heading into the arena – which was pretty impressive given that we haven’t had any flat lessons with Dan previously! Billy went on to produce one of the best tests of his career. He stayed forwards, consistent in the frame and as uphill as is possible for a croup high chap! He is not a flashy horse by any means, but he stayed with me and didn’t miss a beat so I was absolutely thrilled with him when we came out. I have to admit that I had had a couple of swigs on a bottle of rum before I had got on to calm the nerves and it was a bit of a shock how wobbly I was when I got off –oops! Luckily our centre lines weren’t as wobbly!! Everyone was slightly underwhelmed when the scoreboard showed a score of 31.5 with lots of horses in the 20’s, and even one on 18 but I was pleased that Dan agreed we couldn't really have done any more, and at least I wasn’t going into the jumping phases with the pressure of being at the top of the leaderboard!
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I went down and quietly popped the practice fence while no one was around and Billy was jumping really well so I put him away and “Team Billy” and 3 bottles of Champagne went on a course walk:D!! Billy really is a great little cross country horse so nothing overly concerned me, but it was technical, there was plenty to jump and plenty of places to be caught out. It also struck me how long the course was with an optimum time of 7 minutes which is much longer than anything Billy has done so I was aware that I would need to ride him sympathetically. The double of open corners 3 from home worried me a little for that reason, as I had no idea how much horse I would have left at the end.
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TBC...
 

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I walked the course again on Wednesday morning, and generally kept myself busy before the afternoon of show jumping. Billy has never stayed over at an event before so I wasn’t too sure what to expect, but it was definitely a surprise to find that he needed a bit of “gee-ing” up in the warm up as he is usually quite a feisty little chap. He was jumping really well though so into the arena we went and he transformed immediately becoming tense and strong. I saw a long one to the first fence, but then chickened out about 3 strides out so we ended up deep and taking the first rail which perhaps rattled him a bit as he slightly ran at the next few fences before we came to the double which was quite bold with bright fillers and a bold oxer in. Again we were on a slightly long one, but my recent lack of confidence meant that I didn’t have the balls to be committed and ride for it, and Billy’s lack of confidence in me meant that he wasn’t willing to take control and make the decision for me so we ended up in the base of the fence. I got my act together after that, rattled him up, came again and he jumped the rest of the round brilliantly. It felt almost out of control but from watching footage I can see that is the gear I need, so despite yet another cricket score in the jumping it is a very useful lesson and a round that I can build upon in my lessons. Confidence is such a fragile thing – it takes years to build yet can be trashed in seconds.
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My amazing crowd of supporters rallied together to stop me from dwelling on the show jumping and focus on enjoying the cross country – not easy given the 1 hour delay on the cross country course due to the carnage it was causing! When we eventually got down to the warm up Dan encouraged me to allow him to have a bit of a buck and play after his fences to get it out of his system which seemed to really work as it meant he was much more civilised about the start box than he usually is :p
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And finally we were off, and galloping around Badminton park! :D The first real question came at fences 4 and 5 where we had a log before a log drop and a tight right hand turn to a skinny brush on 4 strides. Billy can be a little awkward turning right so our plan was to angle the drop slightly to lessen the turn – well if you watch my hat cam vid I actually angled it quite a lot in comparison to all the other hoofprints but it worked for us and he popped through really easily and was very genuine to lock onto the skinny brush and sail over it.

The next question was the Triple following a long pull up the hill. I focused on riding exactly to the plan I had made with Dan – I avoided the urge to see a bold stride at the table and just popped it before bringing him right back as quickly as I could to allow me to ride forward to the upright rail which was element “a” of the old fashioned coffin making the most of the undulations of the Little Badminton area of the park. I’m not too sure exactly what happened, and it felt as though I had ridden exactly to my plan but Billy slammed the brakes on at the last minute and whipped round to the left leaving me hanging around his neck. Unfortunately I couldn’t get back into the saddle so slithered to my feet before using the fence as a mounting block to climb back on. I came to it again and had to ride very aggressively but Billy was brave and went through – albeit in a very sticky way, leaving a leg on the first element. I’m not too sure what caused him to be so suspicious of the fence and I won’t wax lyrical about it now as it has been spoken about on another thread but the fence claimed a huge number of victims, many of whom were on brilliant cross country horses (as I was) and even Hugh Thomas came out onto the course at one point to try and work out what was going wrong. I’m not trying to make excuses, and there are plenty of faults in my riding (I am an amateur after all!) but it is comforting to know I was not alone...

Sailing over fence 3:
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The crowd gave me a huge cheer when we successfully galloped away from our bogey fence which really helped put a smile back on my face and we got straight back into enjoying the course. Billy went on to give me the most fantastic ride – hoof perfect all the way including through the tricky line of 3 skinny brushes, and the lake complex which had a tough angled skinny on the way out. In fact the fence that gave me the biggest buzz was one of the big box hedges going towards the house – Billy stood a mile off and gave me the most amazing feeling! I am absolutely thrilled with how we managed to put our “whoopsy” behind us and we both grew in confidence the further we went, and he finished full of running and with both of us grinning from ear to ear!

Making mincemeat of the open corners 3 from home:
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Here is the link to my hat cam video – I hope you all agree that Billy gave me a wonderful ride, and our mistake was a genuine one where he just didn’t have the time to read the question. I’m so proud of him for growing in confidence after, and I have been told by a number of people that he looked one of the best horses towards the end of the course where many were really struggling – what a trooper! Just look at those happy ears :D
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Miraculously Billy barely seemed at all bothered after a pretty serious test of endurance, and recovered really quickly so we filled him with carrots and settled him in his stable before heading down to watch the 4* horses trot up with another few bottles of Champers! We then headed to the Outside Chance bar for a few more drinks (the first of many trips there!) before a hilarious dinner at a pub in Luckington with my parents, Dan and some friends. I honestly think we might just have had more fun than the winners that night as we didn’t stop laughing all night – well, all weekend in fact!

I had naively planned on keeping Billy up at Badminton with me for the duration of the 4* event but I realised quickly when I was hand grazing him the following morning that it just wasn’t fair on the poor chap. He had worked his little socks off for me and deserved to be out in the field with his chums so we loaded him up, took him home, had a quick shower and set off back up the M4 and stayed for the remainder of the weekend. On the way back I got a very exciting text message from my sponsors Horseware who had managed to get my friend Lucy and I tickets to the 4* Riders and Owners’ Cocktail Party in Badminton House that evening! We had very little time to try and doll ourselves up (which isn’t at all easy in a horsebox!) and then we had the challenge of figuring out how to get across to the house through the mud and rain! Over trousers, big jackets, head scarfs and wellies to the rescue and we biked to the house where the very kind caterers let us get changed in their tent so we trotted out (literally down the trot up strip!) 5 minutes later very inconspicuously… not! We were all greeted by the Duchess (and I assume their son?) as we went through and the house was breathtaking – I wish I had taken more photos! Merely a sip of Champagne and our glasses were refilled so god knows how much we drank but it was a hilarious evening with delicious canapés and quite surreal to be in the iconic house surrounded by my idols – a night I will never forget!
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The whole weekend was absolutely full of laughter, and spent with the most amazing friends, watching the world’s best horses doing the sport I love – it doesn’t really get much better!

So all in all not exactly the result I had been daydreaming of, but the most incredible experience and I am so proud of my little horse for trying his heart out for me and allowing me the opportunity to fulfil my lifelong ambition of riding at Badminton! And also I can safely say that I definitely nailed both of my goals ;) It was also very special to have so many people there supporting us – none of whom cared what the result was but just loved seeing us having the time of our lives and that’s all that really matters – I can’t thank everyone enough for that. It took me 5 years to get to the Grassroots Championships and it was absolutely worth the wait! I would really love the opportunity to take Billy back in years to come to give it another crack so we are going to spend the next couple of months trying to re-qualify. Thank you all for joining me and Billy on this very special journey – and hopefully this time next year I will be writing a report with a slightly more competitive result!

Alexis & Sir Billy Boppington x

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Looks like you had an amazing time! Clever Billy, clever you, and what an amazing opportunity. You sound like you had a ball despite the unfortunate bogey fence, and despite having sj demons and trip up XC you COMPLETED a very tough course so WELL DONE :) best of luck for re qualifying!!!!
 

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Lovely read!

Nearly teared up at the end!

Congrats to you and Billy!!! :)

Gulp, have to confess, me too! What a lovely read and I love the photos. He's such a handsome fella. Really like the one of him jumping with his eyes closed hehe and the rainbow shot. Sounds like you had an amazing time and lots of positives, not least of which is all the Champers lol. Onwards and upwards!
 

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Amazing well done :) That brought a tear to my eye it is obvious how much Billy means to you and you did so well just to get there. At least you both finished in one piece which is the most important thing.

Your SJ confidence will be back before you know it, my husband always says to me when i'm feeling nervous remember who you are sitting on and that's true, you and Billy know each other inside out trust him :)
 

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What an awesome dude of a horse he is. Well done to you both you rode him so well, in my book that's a fantastic result, happy horse, happy rider. Love the XC warm up pic *boing boing boing* hehehe
 

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Lovely posts, lovely horse, and one could experience it right along with you. Well done!

What's Billy's breeding? I'm guessing either a large part Holsteiner or Trak because of the head.
 

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I loved reading that - had a great big grin on my face . . . very well done you and Team Billy (and how lovely of DJ to be so, so supportive).

Bet you're still on a high :).

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Billy is a star and the hedcam is brilliant - he looks so bold and confident. You both will have learnt loads from that course and next year will be your year!

What happened to us just proves your sports psychologist right - we had the best run-up we could possibly have had and then made a total hash of the XC which should have been our best bit. We were definitely not to be feared! Control the controllable and forget the uncontrollable is a good motto to try and abide by.
 

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That was a great read - I'm very jealous of your cocktail party invite, never mind your great horse and all your talent. I don't think anyone has yet complemented you on your turnout though, Billy looks beautifully turned out in the pics and you look very smart too. Best of luck for the rest of the season
 

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All hail Sir Billy! (and Sir Monty of course) Amazing accomplishment to get there and fabulous MDR photos :)
 

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What a fabulous report, I thoroughly enjoyed reading it and wow what amazing pictures, some for the wall I am sure.

Well done for getting there, an amazing achievement and one you will remember forever, you look great together :)
 

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Wow, well done. I love your stable all done out in Horseware stuff! Sounds like you had an amazing time, you can tell from the photos and the way you write about him that you adore him and I don't blame you he looks like a star.
 

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Lovely posts, lovely horse, and one could experience it right along with you. Well done!

What's Billy's breeding? I'm guessing either a large part Holsteiner or Trak because of the head.

He's TB x Connemara!

He's a little superstar, just love his ears in the video. He's having a ball! Wish I could have been there for the grassroots, next year maybe!
 

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That was a fab read, I was hooked from start to finish! So many well dones, you did brilliantly and I bet you have some great memories. What a super horse!
 

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Wonderful report, love Billy, sounds like such an amazing time. From following you on Twitter I was kept very entertained with your shenanigans getting to and from the bar!
 

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Lovely, lovely report.
I like your attitude to your sport and your pony. I am sure we will be cheering you along again next year.
 

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Fantastic report and what great photos!
Billy looks fabulous and you must be so proud of him - even if the jumping phases didn't go to plan your dressage must've felt great.
Be proud of yourself too - From what I can gather it is a mammoth task even to qualify and then to go on and complete is even better.

A reeaally random question but I love the colour of your breeches - what make are they?
 

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Yey! Finally got to read your Badminton write up :D

Massive congratulations for even making it there. It sounds like a fantastic opportunity. Even with a few elements not going to plan it still looks and sounds like fun was had by all.

And I am not jealous of you getting to go to the cocktail party at all! lol
 
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