beautruman
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Im just adding my 2 cents here
Not ALL horses accept bits and yes it is kinder to use bitless however you keep referring to the bit as the problem, (as in all bits) however can you imagine showing in a bitless bridle?? im sure its been done but i certainly wouldn't. If you can find a bit that your horse is happy with it, why not ride in it? it can be something as simple as thickness of mouthpiece or 2 joints rather than one.
I fully understand that for some horses it is the only answer but i think with quite a few people (not saying you at all here btw as i dont know you.) it is more of a fashion, or trend. There horse may have been fine before but they went bitless anyway. If i ever needed to i would, but i wouldnt unless i needed to.
we are referring to the bit as the problem, because in this case, as in the original post, it has been said that there is no other problem, other than the mare being unhappy in her mouth and having not seen the horse, this is all we have to go on.
as for bitless being a trend or fashion, i totally disagree, i find that people often comment on the fact that my pony has not got a bit and seem almost proud of the fact that they couldn't possibly think about riding their horse/pony without a bit. i usually don't even bother commenting.