Bonfire Night - Neighbours - Long story to get to the point

worldchimp

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Having seen several posts and threads regarding Bonfire night. Could you offer some advice. I live in the middle of nowhere with the nearest village about 3 miles away. The farm is split and we live at one end in a cottage and the farmhouse at the other end is rented out to a family (who lived in a town before). Last year, my horse fractured his hip bone and came back to a couple of weeks before Bonfire night. On the night, I kept going over to check him. He could hear them in the distance but seemed fairly chilled. At about 9.30pm, there was allmighty bang and our next door neighbours had sent off fireworks. Apparently, they had been to the public display but they hadn't used the ones that they had taken. So, decided to let them off in their backcourt yard. Straight behind was a shed full for fertisliers, 60 sheep in the field next door. Not to menition by horse next door to the shed. They have a huge front grass garden that would be perfect to use with no risks.

I complained to the owner of the farmhouse and buildings (who is a relative of mine) who rang the neighbours. The following night, the neighbour came round with a bouquet of flowers and a bottle of wine to say sorry.

Now for my question, do you think that it would be ok for me to go round and ask if they are having fireworks and when so I can be prepared to check horse ect? I don't want to cause a neighbour rift but just have my horse's best interests at heart? Advice please (sorry for the long story)
 
Absolutely pop round - if your neighbours were nice enough to apologise last time then it is likely they will not be doing it again, however certainly doesn't hurt to give them a gentle reminder!

Wish our neighbours were as thoughtful after one of our horses fractured her leg as a result of them letting off display fireworks directly behind the stables! Still, at least the following lawsuit meant their insurers put a ban on them having fireworks again so we dont have to worry about it again!!
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Yes, definitely okay, especially if you're just asking so that you can be with/check on your horse, rather than asking them not to use fireworks. I'm sure they will be fine - go ahead!
 
Yeah I definitely think it'd be ok. I always tell my neighbours if we're having fireworks just so they're aware, and I live in the city, no horses anywhere near, but I know they have a dog and I don't know how he'd react, just manners imo.

If they brought flowers to say sorry last time they seem like nice people and so a friendly enquiry would probably not be looked badly on as long as it's done in a nice way, not 'are you having those bloody fireworks again this year'
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