Trot_on
Well-Known Member
*keep him comfortable!I'm another one who would continue to loan if I could. Has your friend told you why she wants to sell? While I'd like to give them the benefit of the doubt, they're probably well aware that the horse wouldn't sell on the open market and possibly usnig your emotional atttachment to him as an easy way to not have the responsibilty of an older horse who has numerous health issues already. As someone else has said on the thread, if you stopped loaning, it would cost them a lot to retire him.
I would understand more if it were due to financial difficulty or something like that and you've both discussed it at length. However, at this point in the horses life, if I could no longer guarentee a safe future due to financial reasons, I would gift to someone like yourself with a strong agreement of return if needed, or PTS. I wouldn't expect any money from purchaser (just £1 for the transaction). I'd also give you everything you needed for the horse to ensure comfort and familiarity.
The responsibility you're taking on is uncertain and probably pricey - to expect you to pay for that is incredibly unfair, as you're really doing the current owner a favour, not the other way round.
If you do choose to go ahead, he won't pass a vetting, but it'd be useful to speak to a vet who knows him well about current issues and ongoing treatment needed to keep him company.