howengold
Well-Known Member
Ok this is a bit complicated (and the second time I have had to type it as my account longed me off before posting last time) anyways...
I have a mare on trial, I was asked by the owner to try her as she knew I wanted a pony for myself after loosing my old mare in December aged 38. The mare is 23 and I was a bit unsure of having another veteran as I now own 4 aged between 15 and 31, three are still in work but one has been retired since he was about 15 maybe younger due to various illness's. The lady knows me well and knows once I have a pony they are guarenteed a home for life which is why I think they asked me.
Anyway I agreed to have her on trial and I have fallen in love with her. She is everything I want and more. I told her when she was ready I have a cheque for her and she said "don't forget the trial is to see if we can part with her as well"....I am heart broken as I want this mare so much but in the same breath if I am going to be told I can't have her as they have changed their mind about selling I would rather she was taken away now as its going to kill me if they leave it any longer.
I know its up to the seller but why put a pony on trial if you aren't sure about selling.....
I am heart broken and want to know what to do if she decides not to sell after all, I don't want to fall out with her so how do I tell her to pick the pony up asap if the worse happens?
I have a mare on trial, I was asked by the owner to try her as she knew I wanted a pony for myself after loosing my old mare in December aged 38. The mare is 23 and I was a bit unsure of having another veteran as I now own 4 aged between 15 and 31, three are still in work but one has been retired since he was about 15 maybe younger due to various illness's. The lady knows me well and knows once I have a pony they are guarenteed a home for life which is why I think they asked me.
Anyway I agreed to have her on trial and I have fallen in love with her. She is everything I want and more. I told her when she was ready I have a cheque for her and she said "don't forget the trial is to see if we can part with her as well"....I am heart broken as I want this mare so much but in the same breath if I am going to be told I can't have her as they have changed their mind about selling I would rather she was taken away now as its going to kill me if they leave it any longer.
I know its up to the seller but why put a pony on trial if you aren't sure about selling.....
I am heart broken and want to know what to do if she decides not to sell after all, I don't want to fall out with her so how do I tell her to pick the pony up asap if the worse happens?