Firewell
Well-Known Member
I think sharing for now is a great idea .
I don't blame you for wanting a life outside horses! Good on you for wanting to spend time with friends and OH, I would too - I think it's essential really, and horsey women's OH's seem to put up with a lot so they deserve attention haha! Good to have a balance imo
Unless your OH is horsey too. Mine always mucks out a the weekends so I can have a lie-in[ and he works full time whereas I am a full time housewife. I love my OH.
The bottom line is that horses just aren't cheap to keep!
There are ways to do it more cheaply though, I think there was a book out years ago for people who kept horses on a shoestring.
Keeping a hardy native type that goes unshod easily and rarely needs pampering/expensive feeds is a sensible way to keep costs down, especially if you can rent/own your own land. Then you can spend money on them if you want to rather than when you need to as regards rugs etc.
I'm sure if you are determined enough you will own your own horse.