Can anyone offer me some lower leg help? Link to vid...

I totally see what you mean Becki1802, but have been trying the standing in stirrups/no stirrups stuff for a while now with no improvement (I can stand in stirrups all day long if need be now), although admittedly am pretty crap at rising without stirrups. So I am starting to wonder if there are any other contributing factors as well. Horse is actually becoming more responsive, and I do own spurs, I just won't ride in them till I have a stable enough leg.
 
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