Jenni&Ditty
Well-Known Member
I feel absolutely terrible
I've been given the opportunity to ride a VERY nice horse for a lady (professional) in the village, as said horse is widely acclaimed to be 'a nutter' & I don't think she really enjoys riding him/thinks he's worth the effort
He is ridden in a running gag (not sure of the proper name but one of those that has leather bits that go through and attach to the reins) which I appreciate is v strong. He's light in the hand most of the time & will work well in an outline but (especially in canter) if he gets his head up he will go & is strong
After a few times riding him I noticed his mouth was sore & I felt really bad for this. I honestly don't think I'm a 'handy' rider & I do ride him as much as I can from my seat but in canter I can't slow him down completely with my seat. I don't understand why it's happened because I've never done it to a horse before and I don't think I could use any less hand. Ive mentioned it several times to the owner who has said 'he'll just have a silly sensitive mouth' or 'well if he didn't ***** pull you...', we changed the gag from a loose ring to an eggbut but I don't think its helped.
I don't know what to do now? It needs time to heal and I think he needs a different bit, but I don't know what to suggest that's strong enough, and the owner obviously knows what she's doing more than me. Any tips to help me slow down using seat/not hands?
I feel awful for hurting him!! Should I even be allowed to ride him??
I've been given the opportunity to ride a VERY nice horse for a lady (professional) in the village, as said horse is widely acclaimed to be 'a nutter' & I don't think she really enjoys riding him/thinks he's worth the effort
He is ridden in a running gag (not sure of the proper name but one of those that has leather bits that go through and attach to the reins) which I appreciate is v strong. He's light in the hand most of the time & will work well in an outline but (especially in canter) if he gets his head up he will go & is strong
After a few times riding him I noticed his mouth was sore & I felt really bad for this. I honestly don't think I'm a 'handy' rider & I do ride him as much as I can from my seat but in canter I can't slow him down completely with my seat. I don't understand why it's happened because I've never done it to a horse before and I don't think I could use any less hand. Ive mentioned it several times to the owner who has said 'he'll just have a silly sensitive mouth' or 'well if he didn't ***** pull you...', we changed the gag from a loose ring to an eggbut but I don't think its helped.
I don't know what to do now? It needs time to heal and I think he needs a different bit, but I don't know what to suggest that's strong enough, and the owner obviously knows what she's doing more than me. Any tips to help me slow down using seat/not hands?
I feel awful for hurting him!! Should I even be allowed to ride him??