Hexan
Active Member
Today me and my young horse took a major step back he got into the summer paddock which is still meant to be resting and I tried to catch him but he kept running away, he’s NEVER done this (only takes a step or two back, or lifts his head, before letting me put the head collar on) and I know because it’s the sweet grass, but then I flicked the head collar around, to see if running him off would work… as I was told that normally works, but it’s totally wrong… he wouldn’t even let me go near him with a head collar and lead rope… he sprint it down the field. (Luckily my mum was able to get hers quickly without a fuss) and giving himself the sweat… I’ve never cried so much in my life, I was there for nearly two hours, before I asked my mum to try and catch him and if he wasn’t looking into the other field where the other horses were and inbetween hedges my mum probably wouldn’t of even been able to catch his nose with the head collar to bring him in… he’s literally out 24/7 and gets tied to the gate when we’re grooming etc or doing bit or roller work… there’s no small spaces I could try and get him into and I don’t really want to run him off again… I’m honestly tossing and turning tonight that I just needed to write this post and ask for help… how can I get him used to the head collar again? How can I gain some trust back? What can I do in 24/7 turnout? I’m so disheartened by this, it’s really demotivating me to go up and see him tomorrow and try and catch him… because I’ll end up getting stressed and bawling my eyes out, as we were just doing so well up until today… he’s just turned 3 at the end of March… ANY help and advice is appreciated