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:D:D Leviathan you have completely misunderstood my point, sorry!

When I said "cars" I could have equally said any other subject I'm not particularly interested in. My point was about the pointlessness of people complaining a thread's "boring" when they could just leave it.

It wasn't actually anything to do with whether people do or don't like cars! :o:D:D

Are you still banging on about cars woman. :rolleyes::mad::p:D
 
I feel horible today and i acted like an idiot. :(

I need to learn to think before i type i think. My apologises to big ben.

And no apology to the other forum members who you've given a dose of your 'honesty' to?

I'd suggest you read back through your posts and look at them from an objective pint of view, and see how much of a know it all bossy boots you've made yourself look. Then spend a couple of hours apologising. I felt sorry for you when people gave you their 'honesty' but now they've laid off you you're doing it to others.
 
All I can say is that following D_D's thread the other night about which HHOers to have on the perfect yard. I know who I wouldn't have! Busy body springs to mind.

Never saw the threads in question but had a good read of this one, This ^^ is priceless, quote of the thread, closely followed by Arizahn and her hissing barn owl post that did make me lol
 
And no apology to the other forum members who you've given a dose of your 'honesty' to?

I'd suggest you read back through your posts and look at them from an objective pint of view, and see how much of a know it all bossy boots you've made yourself look. Then spend a couple of hours apologising. I felt sorry for you when people gave you their 'honesty' but now they've laid off you you're doing it to others.

One forum member has held hands up and apologised... and you've bitten again. You aren't too different to what DD did last night...
 
One forum member has held hands up and apologised... and you've bitten again. You aren't too different to what DD did last night...

How? please explain.

How is saying that it's no good apologising (if you're going to just go ahead and do it again) being the same as the person you're pointing it out to? :confused:
 
Agree pandora....I also find the irony of telling someone that they are a 'bossy boots', and then promptly saying said person needs to spend a couple of hours apologising, like a naughty child, quite funny!! ;-)
 
I feel awful,m there reallyt was no excuse of my behaviour :(. As pointed out, i have been on the recieving end and know how hurtful it can be. im mortified.
 
How? please explain.

How is saying that it's no good apologising (if you're going to just go ahead and do it again) being the same as the person you're pointing it out to? :confused:

Firstly I agree with Moomin1.

Secondly, you are no behaviourist are you!?

Clearly there is no point Dd attempting to apologise or behave differently because you are going to admonish her anyway and bring up past behaviour...
 
I feel awful,m there reallyt was no excuse of my behaviour :(. As pointed out, i have been on the recieving end and know how hurtful it can be. im mortified.

Fair play to you owning up and apologising. That is never easy.

I have just remembered why I have certain posters on UI though ;)
 
Agree pandora....I also find the irony of telling someone that they are a 'bossy boots', and then promptly saying said person needs to spend a couple of hours apologising, like a naughty child, quite funny!! ;-)


If you feel that insulting people, belittling their riding and horse care abilities and generally behaving like the yard know it all is acceptable behaviour, then that's your choice.
If you feel that my post was bossy, again, that's your choice.

However, not everyone on here wants to read the kind of drivel that comes out of some of these posts on almost every thread they come across. It is like watching a bunch of teenage girls trying to fight for top dog position.

I cannot be the only one who has noticed it, surely? Or am I just the only one who isn't competing in a popularity contest?
 
How? please explain.

How is saying that it's no good apologising (if you're going to just go ahead and do it again) being the same as the person you're pointing it out to? :confused:

What you have said this time round was far more diplomatic than the first post.

I'd suggest you read back through your posts and look at them from an objective pint of view, and see how much of a know it all bossy boots you've made yourself look. .

That was just throwing an insult.
 
Firstly I agree with Moomin1.

Secondly, you are no behaviourist are you!?

Clearly there is no point Dd attempting to apologise or behave differently because you are going to admonish her anyway and bring up past behaviour...

No, I'm not.

As far as I know (unless you know differently) I have never posted anything about DD before.

I used to enjoy DD's posts, and hope that they return to the tone they used to be - of someone who simply adored their horse and gave good insight and experience.

Is that better?
 
No, I'm not.

As far as I know (unless you know differently) I have never posted anything about DD before.

I used to enjoy DD's posts, and hope that they return to the tone they used to be - of someone who simply adored their horse and gave good insight and experience.

Is that better?

Sorry, perhaps I wasnt clear (genuine).

I wasn't suggesting that you had commented about Dd before, I was suggesting that after her apology you continued to admomish her about her recent behaviour. Hardly an incentive to behave differently was my point.

My Grandad always used to spend the first half an hour of my visit bitching about why I hadnt visited in so long. He could never work out why I was reluctant to go ;)
 
Sorry, perhaps I wasnt clear (genuine).

I wasn't suggesting that you had commented about Dd before, I was suggesting that after her apology you continued to admomish her about her recent behaviour. Hardly an incentive to behave differently was my point.

My Grandad always used to spend the first half an hour of my visit bitching about why I hadnt visited in so long. He could never work out why I was reluctant to go ;)

ahh, but we're not just talking about the ONE incident here, perhaps I wasn't clear.

I'm talking about weeks worth of posts from DD which have been insulting, belittling, mocking...

As I tell my children. Apologise if you understand what you have done wrong, and if you will make a concerted effort not to repeat your behaviour. If you do it again, people won't be so willing to accept your apology.

As I say, I do hope DD returns to being the highly regarded member who gave good experience and was (dare I say it) a little 'umble. I enjoyed reading her posts about her riding.
 
I do feel like I've walked into the girl's loos at my old primary school.

I would like to apologise for saying a bad word against DD.

Better?

I just found it a little strange that you would tell her off about how she'd behaved... followed up by an insult.

Couldn't care less about the apologies, you were the one pushing that point about DDs apologies, which is why your first post was a little odd - a "do as I say but not as a do".
 
How? please explain.

How is saying that it's no good apologising (if you're going to just go ahead and do it again) being the same as the person you're pointing it out to? :confused:


Catholics are allowed to do it... few hail mary's a week and they can continue boinking the neighbours wife conscience free:eek::p
 
That reminds me of a really weird thing my MIL said! Apparently if you are not a Roman Catholic, then you are a Protestant. Does anyone know if this is actually true outside of my MIL's own opinion? She's being very insistant...
<wanders off again>
 
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