littlen
Well-Known Member
Sorry this may be a bit of a moan- don't want to admit in real that I'm struggling a bit.
I have owned 4 horses previously, all different types. I have worked with horses and worked with big competition horses. I suppose I'm trying to say I'm not clueless however I have had a break from anything serious and have just been hacking for a few years.
Saw a young pony and loved her and bought her on a bit of a whim. She's rising 5 and I just clicked with her as soon as I saw her. She's backed and ridden away.
Had her home, she's been fantastic. I've hacked her alone and in company and she hasn't put a good wrong. She's good to handle usually. She's been walked out etc and not done anything drastic. She's seen lots and took it all in her stride.
Then she came into season, she bucked me off. She turned into a bucking spinning spooky mess and was awful for 4 days. So awful I couldn't do a thing with her really. She came round this week and has been better but is still very unsettled and spooky. She's also started pulling faces and nipping since then.
She's spooky inhand and ridden. She feels unpredictable when I ride her, so much so I don't want to get on. She's shooting every direction but forwards and is flinging her head everywhere in protest.
I've tried lunging but she bucks like mad as soon as I ask for forward.
She's napping badly when trying to leave the yard but will happily follow me in hand.
She's not overworked, ridden 2-3 times a week in walk and trot and turned out in between. She's in a stable herd and is settled in the group.
She's had her saddle checked this week and her teeth done this month. I've also had a chiro check she's fit for work which she is so I'm confident it's not physical. My friend is an equine vet and dosent think it's a medical problem, just a young pony testing the boundaries who is full of hormones.
I've had lessons and will continue to have them with her and always feel brilliant in them but as soon as the instructor is gone I go to jelly.
I feel like I've really lost my nerve with her though and she can sense it. Maybe I've been far too soft and she knows it. I don't really want to ride her at the moment on my own so it's limiting how much I can do as I rarely have help.
This is normal isn't it with a new pony especially a young one? Is she just testing me?
How can I get past this now without ruining the pony or getting hurt?
I have owned 4 horses previously, all different types. I have worked with horses and worked with big competition horses. I suppose I'm trying to say I'm not clueless however I have had a break from anything serious and have just been hacking for a few years.
Saw a young pony and loved her and bought her on a bit of a whim. She's rising 5 and I just clicked with her as soon as I saw her. She's backed and ridden away.
Had her home, she's been fantastic. I've hacked her alone and in company and she hasn't put a good wrong. She's good to handle usually. She's been walked out etc and not done anything drastic. She's seen lots and took it all in her stride.
Then she came into season, she bucked me off. She turned into a bucking spinning spooky mess and was awful for 4 days. So awful I couldn't do a thing with her really. She came round this week and has been better but is still very unsettled and spooky. She's also started pulling faces and nipping since then.
She's spooky inhand and ridden. She feels unpredictable when I ride her, so much so I don't want to get on. She's shooting every direction but forwards and is flinging her head everywhere in protest.
I've tried lunging but she bucks like mad as soon as I ask for forward.
She's napping badly when trying to leave the yard but will happily follow me in hand.
She's not overworked, ridden 2-3 times a week in walk and trot and turned out in between. She's in a stable herd and is settled in the group.
She's had her saddle checked this week and her teeth done this month. I've also had a chiro check she's fit for work which she is so I'm confident it's not physical. My friend is an equine vet and dosent think it's a medical problem, just a young pony testing the boundaries who is full of hormones.
I've had lessons and will continue to have them with her and always feel brilliant in them but as soon as the instructor is gone I go to jelly.
I feel like I've really lost my nerve with her though and she can sense it. Maybe I've been far too soft and she knows it. I don't really want to ride her at the moment on my own so it's limiting how much I can do as I rarely have help.
This is normal isn't it with a new pony especially a young one? Is she just testing me?
How can I get past this now without ruining the pony or getting hurt?