Nancykitt
Well-Known Member
I keep on seeing jumping kids that are jumping higher and higher but actually they don't really have the muscle control to prevent the weight of their head flinging them around like a ragdoll, but everyone raves about how amazing the little cherub is.
This. I've seen videos of small children jumping big fences on very big (ie, much too big for the child) horses. I don't see how leg aids can come into it based on the position of the legs and I felt sure that the horse was largely on autopilot. I have to say that I admire the confidence it takes to do this but to be honest I've seen some similar aged riders on suitably sized ponies actually 'ride' the pony into a fence/round a course, which I actually find more impressive from a riding skill point of view. And I can see that anyone pointing this out is likely to be totally blasted for being horrible to a cute child.
All those saying that parents are the real problem here - I agree 100%. In music teaching we often came across children who were clearly gifted and in some cases the parents totally ruined things for them. One case that I remember, the mother was obviously living her own fantasy of fame through the child, who was clearly uneasy about being paraded at every opportunity. One day the (then) teenager refused to play again and walked away from the recitals & publicity. The mother was broken, but the child (autistic/ADHD) was vulnerable and shouldn't really have been put through something they weren't happy with.
Years ago one of my former pupils at school auditioned for a temporary role in Coronation St - it was made permanent and I think he's still in it now. The whole thing was handled well by the agents and the parents. However, we didn't have social media back in the day and the potential for things to go horribly wrong would have been massive.
I am totally repulsed by the thought of a parent setting up a paid content channel involving a child. At best, it's incredibly naive. At worst, it's simply abuse.