samleigh
Well-Known Member
I can't remember ever being so worried about riding, I sold H about 5 weeks ago after 2yrs, he was a TB, I'd always had weekly lessons with him and before buying him was a confident rider but in Jan I decided to give it 4 months, more extensive lessons flat/Sjumping & if my confidence didn't improve with H than I would sell..I fell off alot..the last fall hurt & my instructor even told me to get rid! When I told friends I was thinking of selling they said "thank god"! Emotionally its so hard even though your head tells you its all for the best. The thing is friends have offered me their horses, some I ride quite often anyway and I just want to get off or do get off as being on a horse doesn't seem to be somewhere I feel comfortable..have taken to riding my bike alongside instead..much safer! How do you go from Competing/jumping 90cm- 1 mtr and BD Novice a month or so ago to not wanting to ride at all !
I have been offered a little 15.1 Cob(his Mum has joined the RAF) successfully done all PC teams, so more than capable to do my level Dressage/Sjumping/X country & RC activities with a competent 42yr old, I hacked him with company twice at the weekend his first time ridden for 3mnths, then on my own last night, he was a little unsure but I'm sure that was down to me but didn't put a hoof wrong & as we passed a big hedge last night, a petrol lawnmower started up, I automatically went into defensive riding, tummy dropped, expecting the worst, he didn't twitch an ear, I'm sure he rolled his eyes back and thought why is she spooking at a lawn mower!
Will my confidence come back! Was going to try hacking again tonight, we have to hack to an arena in the village, and see if I feel anymore confident with the dude! Even him picking up the pace slightly on the way home makes me want to bail and lead home!
Stories of success needed!
I have been offered a little 15.1 Cob(his Mum has joined the RAF) successfully done all PC teams, so more than capable to do my level Dressage/Sjumping/X country & RC activities with a competent 42yr old, I hacked him with company twice at the weekend his first time ridden for 3mnths, then on my own last night, he was a little unsure but I'm sure that was down to me but didn't put a hoof wrong & as we passed a big hedge last night, a petrol lawnmower started up, I automatically went into defensive riding, tummy dropped, expecting the worst, he didn't twitch an ear, I'm sure he rolled his eyes back and thought why is she spooking at a lawn mower!
Will my confidence come back! Was going to try hacking again tonight, we have to hack to an arena in the village, and see if I feel anymore confident with the dude! Even him picking up the pace slightly on the way home makes me want to bail and lead home!
Stories of success needed!