Luckylocalian
Well-Known Member
Help! I am so confused as to what I should be doing with my horse schooling! He is a 5yr 17'1 dutch warmblood broken earlier this year. I have been having weekly lessons at weekend during the day - these are quite "classical" - about the horse relaxing thoroughly and working forward with the lightest aids possible. We are not really working in an outline at all in the lessons - which I keep being told is not important at this stage as long as he working forward and I have been happy with that so far.
Problem I have is that recently he has been very naughty (especially when I ride him after work with lights) and been bolting off with me in the school and bronking and general naughty high jinks! He never does this in my lessons (probably because they are in daylight and I am more relaxed at weekend). Lots of people at the yard keep telling me I need to have a much shorter rein and firmer contact with him and be much stricter. When I do this tho he feels tight and overbent and not relaxed and harmonious (which is how he feels in my lessons)... however I do have control which I am lacking when he is tanking off with me when I am trying to be light and soft and get him to relax and bring his back down.
Sorry for long post but what should I be doing? What is the right approach? Don't want to confuse or ruin him!! Thanks!!
Problem I have is that recently he has been very naughty (especially when I ride him after work with lights) and been bolting off with me in the school and bronking and general naughty high jinks! He never does this in my lessons (probably because they are in daylight and I am more relaxed at weekend). Lots of people at the yard keep telling me I need to have a much shorter rein and firmer contact with him and be much stricter. When I do this tho he feels tight and overbent and not relaxed and harmonious (which is how he feels in my lessons)... however I do have control which I am lacking when he is tanking off with me when I am trying to be light and soft and get him to relax and bring his back down.
Sorry for long post but what should I be doing? What is the right approach? Don't want to confuse or ruin him!! Thanks!!