Connecting stirrups to girth

You can buy webbing straps to attach the stirrups to the girth but I really dont like the idea. Only time in the saddle will help you with your balance. Good luck
 
As much as i Hated/Hate it I did lots of bareback work and no stirrups and omg it helped so much my balance is amzing now even if i do say so myself! I would certinly give it a shot, even if you are one of those people who hate it(like me, i literally had to force myself to do it) But certinly was worth it :D
 
Attaching the stirrups to the girth won't help you be more secure in the saddle, as others have said, try to get some lunge lessons on a safe horse, it will help a lot. You need to have the confidence to relax and move with the horse and not grip too tight. Don't let anyone frighten you by lunging on something stupid.
 
I wouldn't tie the stirrups to the girth, i'd get yourself some lessons and do lots of stirrupless canter work - would be a safer alternative and it will help you more long term as will improve your balance :)
 
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