Agent XXX999
Well-Known Member
I have been reading a few posts on here and it does seem that people get a bit confused between constructive criticism and bitching
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I think that C.C is a good thing for everyone, and you can learn things for example, I posted I am sorry but I think your pony looks a bit poor on a thread the other day because IMO the pony did, and she asked for opinions. I dont see things like this as bitching
However, bitching e.g. slating another persons thoughts on a matter example This happened next post Well I think that your thoughts on [that] are completely daft and you should just get over yourself is neither constructive or very helpful. In turn everyone starts posting who is right and who is wrong and it gets a bit daft and detracts from the point
I am not, by the way, saying that you should stop posting negative things, just consider the way in which it is done, and how the person (who you actually dont know in most cases) might feel about it at the other end. I would hate to think that someone would be upset or take to heart some of the things that are said on here.
I do think (as a relatively new member) that things can get a bit cliquey on here sometimes (just like being on a big yard really!)
I really enjoy coming on to the forum (and it is great for looking busy at work) and if I do get into a debate with someone I tend to PM them afterward to ensure they are OK and make sure there are no hard feelings I just think that some people would benefit by remembering if you cant say something nice dont say it
Sorry but I had to get that out!
I think that C.C is a good thing for everyone, and you can learn things for example, I posted I am sorry but I think your pony looks a bit poor on a thread the other day because IMO the pony did, and she asked for opinions. I dont see things like this as bitching
However, bitching e.g. slating another persons thoughts on a matter example This happened next post Well I think that your thoughts on [that] are completely daft and you should just get over yourself is neither constructive or very helpful. In turn everyone starts posting who is right and who is wrong and it gets a bit daft and detracts from the point
I am not, by the way, saying that you should stop posting negative things, just consider the way in which it is done, and how the person (who you actually dont know in most cases) might feel about it at the other end. I would hate to think that someone would be upset or take to heart some of the things that are said on here.
I do think (as a relatively new member) that things can get a bit cliquey on here sometimes (just like being on a big yard really!)
I really enjoy coming on to the forum (and it is great for looking busy at work) and if I do get into a debate with someone I tend to PM them afterward to ensure they are OK and make sure there are no hard feelings I just think that some people would benefit by remembering if you cant say something nice dont say it
Sorry but I had to get that out!