acorn92x
Well-Known Member
There is a lady who I have become quite good friends with at the yard who has really lost her love of riding because of having a few quite bad falls and confidence knocks. Whilst she has no real desire to ride anymore, she still really wants to have a horse to look after, take on inhand walks, spoil, pamper and dote on but is not fussed at all about riding it. She is talking about selling her current horse, who is a lovely TB allrounder who I think would be perfect for a teenager wanting to go out and have fun so I don't think she'd have trouble selling it and buying or taking on a horse which either cannot be ridden (Due to past injury or whatever) or is elderly just to love and care for. Lady is a cracking owner, really knowledgeable and caring (Although she works full time, she has a good job and spends a lot of money caring for and pampering her current horse) and the yard has great turnout and facilities, horses come in at night and there are lots of other horses out in the fields too.
Basically, what I'm asking would be if you had lost your interest in riding but still wanted a horse to dote on, would you take on a non ridden companion? I said if this is what she wants, and what she thinks is right then to go for it but to give careful thought about whether she would miss riding or have any desire to go back to it in the future. I suggested loaning her current horse out to a competitive home where it would get more exercise and get something more suitable to rebuild her confidence but she wasn't interested as she seems to feel like her confidence has passed the brink of repair. Advice please and thank you if you got this far!
Basically, what I'm asking would be if you had lost your interest in riding but still wanted a horse to dote on, would you take on a non ridden companion? I said if this is what she wants, and what she thinks is right then to go for it but to give careful thought about whether she would miss riding or have any desire to go back to it in the future. I suggested loaning her current horse out to a competitive home where it would get more exercise and get something more suitable to rebuild her confidence but she wasn't interested as she seems to feel like her confidence has passed the brink of repair. Advice please and thank you if you got this far!