Crying my eyes out! Help!?

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Sweetheart, I wasn't wanting to "reprimand" you as such, yes OK you've beaten yourself up about it, BUT the fact can't be ignored unfortunately, i.e. that a pony you had "on loan" has been, well, lent on..............it all sounds like this is a dreadful muddle allround. You are technically "under-age" and were in an awful situation, in that you were in many ways the victim of circumstances; it would appear that decisions were made about this pony and simply because you were "under age" you were powerless to act so decisions were made which patently were not the right ones and out of your control. Basically whoever was responsible for moving the pony in the first place, and then handing him on to your family member, should have notified the charity - and they in their turn sound pretty disorganised it has to be said and frankly need to get their act together and start dealing with paperwork properly.

I'm sure you know now, and have unfortunately learnt the hard way, not to "lend" on any pony which is on loan to you; that is an important thing to be aware of for the future.

I do hope all this works out for you. Its an awful situation and everyone on here feels for you.

I know, I'm sorry. I just feel so stupid Just want him back and continue on the way it was before, the whole thing has gotten a lot more confusing and out of hand than it should have been and it is primarily my fault

Flurryjuno - MiJodsR2BlinkinTight is right, as is shampain...it is a situation that you have not been able to be in charge of so of course you are upset, but it is what happens when things are allowed to happen. By that I mean that ultimately, it is the USPCA at fault.

That said, they are supporting you, get the info I mentioned from one of the PIO's and get your dad to speak the neighbourhood police team and it will be sorted out soon enough.

Chin up, this is what life is about...we all make mistakes, they just happen more often when we are younger. Thing is, we learn from them. One day, you'll be on here giving the benefit of your experience to someone else and that is what makes the world go round so to speak