MissFliss
Active Member
My daughter (6yo) has been riding weekly for the past 1.5yrs at a riding school and a few weeks ago took the plunge to buy her a pony. We’ve bought a been there done that FYFR type, but obv still a little bit less steady than the ancient riding school pony she’s been learning on. She was enthusiastic prior to us getting her the pony but since we’ve got her there’s only been a handful of times when I could hand on heart say she’s really enjoyed riding her. The rest of the time shes moaned about being too cold/tired after around 10-15mins, or the pony has jigged a little or looked at a noise. She’s still just about in the lead rein/lunge so still very safe and not doing too much too soon.
It feels like I’m being a pushy mum getting her to ride, but equally she’s only rides at the weekend and once during the week due to my work shifts so not sure I’m asking too much. I don’t know if I should lower my expectations and perhaps drop the ride after school so she’s not as tired or just push through until it gets warmer in spring. I’m gutted as I thought she loved it, I want her to love riding/owning a horse like I do and am just finding the balance hard between not pushing too hard but equall feeling like she needs to realise she has some responsibility now. What do other people with little kids do? Do I have unrealistic expectations?
It feels like I’m being a pushy mum getting her to ride, but equally she’s only rides at the weekend and once during the week due to my work shifts so not sure I’m asking too much. I don’t know if I should lower my expectations and perhaps drop the ride after school so she’s not as tired or just push through until it gets warmer in spring. I’m gutted as I thought she loved it, I want her to love riding/owning a horse like I do and am just finding the balance hard between not pushing too hard but equall feeling like she needs to realise she has some responsibility now. What do other people with little kids do? Do I have unrealistic expectations?