Day three - reassurances I am going in the right direction please!

margaretb

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Earlier in the week I posted my joy at riding Poppy with someone walking alongside. The following day I knew I had to get on her again and ride out, this time it was on my own, I did it, but the euphoria of the previous day went, as I knew it would. Poppy didn't behave as well as she did the previous day, I was nervous which she probably sensed. She did not want to turn back when I did, but I won, and did not behave very politely when a car came up the road. I pulled into a gateway, but the car was coming a little fast and Poppy stuck her bum out. I did ask the driver to slow down and got Poppy back in the gateway and all was well.

Today I knew I had to get back on her. She appears not to like her saddle going on, but once it is on she is fine. She is a bit fidgity when I got to get on (I mount from a step) but I walk her back to where I want her and can get on. Once out into the farm yard she would not stand so I walked her around in fairly small circles and then halted her, and she did quite quickly stand nicely.

I got my son to walk down the lane to the field with me and open the gate and we had a nice amble around. Funny thing is she goes fine in one direction, but going around the field in the opposite direction she is initially all over the place. I did try a 3 loop serpentine at a walk just to get her to listen to me and that wasn't too bad

It is early days, this is only the third time I have ridden her. I have to say a measure of brandy did help to settle the nerves and at the moment I am confident to get back on her tomorrow.

Sorry to go on, rest of family is utterly non horsey!
 
Sounds to me like you are doing a fab job and taking it all one step at a time. It just takes time to build up the trust between you.. You sound like you are being firm with her and not letting her get away with the bad behaviour but not overreacting - keep at it!
 
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