ihatework
Well-Known Member
I've got one that wouldn't be what you would class as nappy generally but every now and again (primarily when just coming into season) can be irrationally sensitive/spooky about things which in the school comes out in excessive spooky tension, but out hacking has shown as a real nap & flight reaction. You cannot bully, smack, kick or anything else in this situation - it just escalates into a battle that won't be won. The thing that works is to stop, drop the rein contact and just pat/talk to her. After a while you can feel the adrenalin levels drop and only then can you negotiate going forwards. Mine is a real genuine work horse, but nothing is perfect and you will just have to figure her out for yourself. All I would say is with mares especially you need to make friends with them and have them on your side. Don't be to quick to reach for the whip, however frustrated you might be!