speedbird
Well-Known Member
I work full time to pay half the mortgage / bills with partner and keep my horse in livery. I'm having a baby in spring and will be on statutory maternity pay. I am wondering how I'm going to pay mortgage , child care and then go back to work part time , let alone livery shoes insurance etc
If I sell my lovely all rounder I should get about £4500-5000 which I can put into the bank which takes a bit of pressure off . I will also top riding soon and just don't know when I ll start after the baby. It will be my first and last baby as I'm in my forties.
I also don't want my talented horse to be wasted, I would love to see him go on to compete and hunt with someone else. The trouble is, everyone is saying , they don't know how I could do it and making me feel terrible . Although they re usually the women kept by their husbands and have stables at home !
Did anyone else make the heartbreaking decision to sell ?
If I sell my lovely all rounder I should get about £4500-5000 which I can put into the bank which takes a bit of pressure off . I will also top riding soon and just don't know when I ll start after the baby. It will be my first and last baby as I'm in my forties.
I also don't want my talented horse to be wasted, I would love to see him go on to compete and hunt with someone else. The trouble is, everyone is saying , they don't know how I could do it and making me feel terrible . Although they re usually the women kept by their husbands and have stables at home !
Did anyone else make the heartbreaking decision to sell ?