debserofe
Well-Known Member
My mare came to me as a companion horse, couldnt be ridden, caught or led - needless to say she now does all three. There are as many different ways of 'catching' a horse as there are horses! Keeping a headcollar on and grabbing are not one of the ways I would use, but each to their own. Prior to my getting my mare she would be chased round the field with a bucket of treats (liquorice allsorts!) and, once caught, would be brought in to be groomed, ridden (in a saddle that didnt fit and with a mouth full of diastimas and ulcers!) and then fed!! She had learned to associate being caught with pain! I did a lot of leading work with her and teaching her to ground tie (she didnt tie either - she had learned that if she pulled back hard enough and fast enough, she could break whatever she was tied to - same thing with people!). She is now the first to be 'caught' - there is always something in the stable when they come in - hay and sometimes a few nuts or a carrot on the floor and, most of all she is no longer in pain when being ridden! I have had people comment on how easy it is to 'catch' all my horses but then they are just coming up to me in the field to see what I am doing and whether I have come for them! They don't see coming in as a punishment, just as they dont see being ridden as a punishment - they walk up to me when I walk up to them! If you are struggling, please try and get a professional to help you as well meaning people may make it worse and it is impossible to build a relationship with a horse that does not want to be with you - 'caught'.