RachelB
Well-Known Member
I have a dilemma here I need some advice on!
I had to take my horse to the vet on Friday, but I have no trailer and so I asked to borrow a friend's, F. F came back from holiday last weekend minus her Land Rover and unable to pick up her trailer from servicing, so we asked another friend, H, to borrow hers. We wouldn't usually ask H to borrow anything, as she can be very fussy about her stuff and likes everything just so. However she agreed (I have done favours for her recently so she was more than happy) and left me a note on how to unlock the wheel clamp, with a PS. 'please take good care of it!' as she is intending on selling the trailer and it is in nearly new condition.
Anyway, having hitched up late to get to the vets' for Maiden's appointment, my Mum and I were both in a rush and feeling very stressed and worried about it all... Mum pulled the Landy forwards up the slope towards the gate to back the trailer into the yard to load, and the trailer came off the towbar and rolled backwards towards someone else's trailer (all shiny posh Ifors by the way). I grabbed the hitch and managed to get the handbrake on before it hit anything, and there were only two other people in the yard at the time, thankfully not gossipy types, and H wasn't there, so I thought it would be ok.
Took Maiden to vet and back without a problem, H came and collected her trailer yesterday morning, I didn't tell her what had happened as nothing came of it and I knew she wouldn't trust me with anything for a long while (she can be funny like that) if I did. Let alone her trailer, which we might need again as Maiden has to go back to the vet in two weeks' time.
I got to the yard yesterday evening and found one of the gossipy girls, M, telling F about how H's trailer 'shot back halfway down the yard and nearly rammed her (M's) trailer'... she said to me, 'I hear you had trouble hitching up today?' and I replied 'no... it was fine...' as I didn't want H finding out. M was a bit miffed and persevered, saying (in her usual sarky tones) 'oh so it didn't nearly hit my trailer then...?'. I asked her who had told her, and apparently it was one of the two who witnessed the incident, who I never thought would tell anyone and I thought would have had the decency to let me tell H if I felt it necessary. I was shocked that she could have been so tactless and had been gossiping about it behind my back (very unlike her) and gave her a piece of my mind that evening. And as a result of gossip number 1 telling F, I more than likely won't be allowed to borrow her trailer any more... meaning I have no trailer to take Maiden to the vets' with again!
The dilemma is... now the gossipy lot know about what happened, do I tell H about it and hope that she isn't too annoyed (I'm quite close to her and she may well not talk to me for a month or two, and probably won't trust me again) and may let me borrow her trailer again, or do I not tell her and hope that it won't get round to her?
I had to take my horse to the vet on Friday, but I have no trailer and so I asked to borrow a friend's, F. F came back from holiday last weekend minus her Land Rover and unable to pick up her trailer from servicing, so we asked another friend, H, to borrow hers. We wouldn't usually ask H to borrow anything, as she can be very fussy about her stuff and likes everything just so. However she agreed (I have done favours for her recently so she was more than happy) and left me a note on how to unlock the wheel clamp, with a PS. 'please take good care of it!' as she is intending on selling the trailer and it is in nearly new condition.
Anyway, having hitched up late to get to the vets' for Maiden's appointment, my Mum and I were both in a rush and feeling very stressed and worried about it all... Mum pulled the Landy forwards up the slope towards the gate to back the trailer into the yard to load, and the trailer came off the towbar and rolled backwards towards someone else's trailer (all shiny posh Ifors by the way). I grabbed the hitch and managed to get the handbrake on before it hit anything, and there were only two other people in the yard at the time, thankfully not gossipy types, and H wasn't there, so I thought it would be ok.
Took Maiden to vet and back without a problem, H came and collected her trailer yesterday morning, I didn't tell her what had happened as nothing came of it and I knew she wouldn't trust me with anything for a long while (she can be funny like that) if I did. Let alone her trailer, which we might need again as Maiden has to go back to the vet in two weeks' time.
I got to the yard yesterday evening and found one of the gossipy girls, M, telling F about how H's trailer 'shot back halfway down the yard and nearly rammed her (M's) trailer'... she said to me, 'I hear you had trouble hitching up today?' and I replied 'no... it was fine...' as I didn't want H finding out. M was a bit miffed and persevered, saying (in her usual sarky tones) 'oh so it didn't nearly hit my trailer then...?'. I asked her who had told her, and apparently it was one of the two who witnessed the incident, who I never thought would tell anyone and I thought would have had the decency to let me tell H if I felt it necessary. I was shocked that she could have been so tactless and had been gossiping about it behind my back (very unlike her) and gave her a piece of my mind that evening. And as a result of gossip number 1 telling F, I more than likely won't be allowed to borrow her trailer any more... meaning I have no trailer to take Maiden to the vets' with again!
The dilemma is... now the gossipy lot know about what happened, do I tell H about it and hope that she isn't too annoyed (I'm quite close to her and she may well not talk to me for a month or two, and probably won't trust me again) and may let me borrow her trailer again, or do I not tell her and hope that it won't get round to her?